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Question: We have become good friends with a couple... but are not interested in playing with them anymore... how do we tell them?
Dear Lounge Advice,
We've been taking our time investigating & feeling comfortable in the Lifestyle. We finally connected with a couple. My wife had her first female to female sexual encounter which she was hesitant about, but did seem to enjoy herself. We really like this couple as friends outside of the bedroom too. The question is how can we tell them that we would rather not play with them anymore, but still stay friends??
We have always said that honest is the best policy..and we are all grown adults. Just tell them that you cherish your friendship and do not wish to do anything that will jeopardize that.
If the experience we good..then that's a positive…and leave it on that note.
They usually will understand that friendship is more important than the playing to you…and if they don't…oh well…that's their issue…
As long as you are honest with them…then you have done the right thing. The most importan thing is not to do something that you dont wish to do... just because they are friends...
If you do.. the friendship won't last very long anyway.
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