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Question: I keep trying to introduce things into our relationship.. how can I get my finace to open sexual boundries?

Dear Lounge Advice,
Me and my fiance have been together for over 5 years now and i love her with all my heart, but i want to open the sexual bonderies. I tried surprising her with a vibrating dildo, clit simulating bullets, and cock rings. The only one she sometimes enjoys is when i wear the cock ring. How can i spice it up and maybe even get another female to eventually join in? She has had a girlfriend in the past. Thanks!



Dear (Anonymous),

Ok it is clear what you want... but since we are assuming that you are interested in being a couple... we would suggest you begin by communicating with her and finding out whether SHE is interested in opening those sexual boundries.

Most of the time it is a requirement for both members of the couple to be at the stage where opening up those sexual boundries are ok.

That requires a great deal of trust... honesty... and openess.... qualities that you just find in play toys.

We were married for 6 years before we even thought about the Lifestyle.... with you guys still just being engaged to be married... you have to be sensative to the possiblity that maybe she is not ready to share you with anyone.

We dont know everything about your situation... but the best advise we can give you is to stop guessing at things that you can do to get her to open up..... and ask her... she will tell you a lot more than we could ever guess !!!

PS Joining this site with a "single male" profile is certainly NOT a good start!
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