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Question: We cannot go to the LL Hedo Trip. Are there other good times or places to go?

Dear Lounge Advice,

We are new to the thought of swinging. Although it makes up a significant part of fantasy talk during sex we have only had two experiences. Both were with other couples in the same hot tub but no swap...just voyeurism. We both enjoyed it very much.

We cannot make the dates of the Hedonism Lifestyles party due to work commitments. We are considering going the week before. Have you any ideas how to maximize our opportunity with regards to exposure to the lifestyle in a gradual, safe and enjoyable way. Is Hedonism full of such opportunity or do we have to seek it out. We do not want a bunch of 18 year old single males.

We went to Grand Lido Braco last year. We had fun but there was no opportunity to explore this lifestyle.

S and J



Dear (Anonymous),

There is a misconception that Hedo is a Lifestyle or Swingers resort. It is not... in fact... we know couples that went on weeks where they were hard pressed to find Lifestyle people.

Thats why its best to go on the Lifestyle Weeks. What about the other trips that are listed in the Forum sections here?

What about the Lifestyle clubs/parties/socials in your area. We know many couples who live by you and they are certainly having fun at the places that they go. You may wish to make a posting in the Forum here or check out the clubs section of the site. USE the tools that the Lifestyle Lounge gives to you as a full resource !!!

If all else fails.. go to the places in the country that are known for their Lifestyle Clubs. Right here in South Florida is one of the main concentrations of Lifestyle clubs.

They are so much fun down here.. we get bored at Hedo !!!

There are so many options for you guys to explore... you do not have to travel that far from home.
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