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Question: Do you know any Bay Area Clubs for married men going alone?

Dear Lounge Advice,

Do you know of any swing clubs in the Bay Area where married men (who will arrive single) are welcome?



Dear (Anonymous),

Boy you're not going to like most of this advice...

As far as the clubs in the Bay Area... check out the links section of the Lifestyle Lounge and also the NASCA website for a guide to clubs... You will have to contact each place to find out when single men are allowed. We don't know of anyplace that has a special "single married men" night.

If your wife knows you are going to a club alone and you have her blessing... then we cannot say anything but good luck....even if she does not know about it and you are doing this behind her back...the honorable thing to do is to tell people you meet that you are married. (Not that cheating spouses are known for many honorable acts)

The Lifestyle for us is something that we do together... as a couple. Its all about being open and honest... and nothing about cheating. Cheating spouses leave a bad mark on the Lifestyle...

We don't feel it is nice to put others in the middle of your marriage problems... if you are cheating... Good luck with your deception!
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