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Question: Are there any non-verbal signs we should know about at clubs?

Dear Lounge Advice,
my wife & i are new to the lifestyle, and we enjoy it very much. our question or questions are, we have been attending a few clubs and when we are dancing and my wife turns away from me while dancing, does this give other couples or females an invitation to join us? if so, what are some of the other signals that are out there that we do not know about?

thank you
need to know



Dear (Anonymous),

We are not sure of any "signs" as you are suggesting.. everything is up to interpretation by the other people.

One couple may see her turning around as an invitation to approach you guys... and another couple may see this as a dance step.

If someone does approach you in those instances.... if you are not interested... your wife can merely turn back around... that is a obvious move.

Usually on the dancefloor it is a lot easier for the women to be the aggressors...and if the male is the aggressor... its a turn off for most people.

Everyone wants to look for a Lifestyle playbook to guide them... but nothing like that exists... most of all... use common sense to guide you.
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