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Question: My ex wife and I were in the Lifestyle.. now that I am single.. what should I do?

Dear Lounge Advice,

Hi guys! Here's my dilemna. About 6 years ago my wife and I were dabbling in swinging. We had some great experiences! However, we, like most couples, were not interested in the "single male". Now as a single (recently divorced) I am on the other side...and it sucks!!It seems almost impossible to find couples or women that are in search of a single guy. and the ones that do, request that "you have a huge cock"...gimme a break!! What am I to do? :-)

Waiting for some wisdom,



Dear (Anonymous),

It's a numbers game... and as you know.. the numbers are not in your favor...

What you need to do is be patient...and honest.

What we would really suggest is that you concentrate on finding another 1/2... and maybe you will find someone who is open-minded to try.

We were married for 6 years before our relationship was even to a level where we would consider this...

We would say to concentrate on a new partner and don't put the lifestyle ahead of what is really important in a relationship... and in time... things may come...

Our experience has been that when single men look for a mate that is open to the lifestyle as a litmus test for their new relationships.. they don't "get it"... and those relationships seem to never last.
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