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Question: Im a 19 year old single bi female... why am I having trouble meeting couples/females to play?

Dear Lounge Advice,

I am a single, attractive almost 19 yr old female from MN. I am new to the lifestyle, but enjoy it very, very much. I have been sexually active for the last 3 years of my life, and have always been interested in exploring myself in all ways, including sexually. Through two experiences with a couple, I have now discovered I am a very BI female =)

Personally, I am a more mature individual than most my age through the many experiences in my life. Several people in the lifestyle are older than me, which isn't a problem for me BUT the problem is having to defend my intentions in being in the lifestyle to those who do not believe and trying to go out to meets and be able to meet people when they are usually at bars.

1. How can I show people I am FOR REAL in the lifestyle?

2. How do I meet people from my area?

Thank you so very much for taking time to help me, and others. I really appreciate what you are doing helping this site and several people from all over with their questions and concerns.

Thanks again!




Dear (Anonymous),

We do not think that with your "real certification" or the fact that you are a single bi fem... that you would be having any problems meeting people....

However... we hate to break this to you... but common sense leads us to believe that the problem is your age.

Many people are not interested in playing with anyone who is under 21 no matter what their level of maturity.... us included.

We are sure that you are a wonderful person and probably very sexy... at the same time we feel that you should have more experiences with maturity dealing with people closer to your own age range.

Nothing personal.. but many of us are uncomfortable engaging in lifestyle activities with someone who is closer in age to our children than us.

Again it is nothing personal... we are just telling you the way it is !!!
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