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Question: How do you reply to emails of people you are not interested in?

Dear Lounge Advice, What is the proper etiquette when someone e-mails you and you are not interested. Do you respond and say no thank you?(which can seem rude)Or, do you just not reply?(which can also seem rude, especially after they see that you have read their e-mail) Thanks for your help. J & S

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

We strongly feel that if someone took the time to reach out to you.. .and by doing so is extending to you a nice compliment.. that they deserve at least the respect of an answer.

We are all big boys and girls here... and the best thing to do is to be direct without having to go into details.

You suggest using something as simple as, "Thank you very much for your nice email, but at this time we do not think that we would make a very good match."

END OF STORY.

If they respond as to, why? (Which most will NOT) simply say, "Please respect our decision"
THAT IS IT... no explanations are required !

Be short.. sweet.. .and to the point !

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