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Question: What is the typical way to first meet?

Dear Lounge Advice,
What is the typical way to 'first meet' a couple who has emailed you with interest. We are mainly interested in friendships at first and to see what develops later. Do most people follow that line of thinking or are people mainly searching for sexual connections right away?



Dear (Anonymous),

The answer is that there is no "typical way" and it all depends on the people.

What you have to decide for yourselves is what YOU guys are comfortable with... and then just state that directly to the other couple.

If you wish to meet in a casual setting first.. then just tell that to them.

You will me a lot more comfortable going at your own pace rather than playing by someone else's rules.

Decide how you feel most comfortable progressing and then just communicate that honestly.

Good luck and let us know if you run into any roadblocks.... remember... you are who counts !!!
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