Dear Lounge Advice, my girlfriend is not sure about full swap any suggestions Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), Yes. Don't make her do anything she doesn't wish to do. Usually those fears have to do with either security issues or some deep rooted feelings that she has about the intimacy of making love. Give her more support and your understanding and be thankful that she is wonderful enough to allow you to engage in any of this. Many would not be so bold.