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Question: We are worried that we may be too exclusive with another couple.

Dear Lounge Advice,

We met a couple a few months ago and have been seeing them almost every weekend since. Don't get me wrong, we have been having a lot of fun, but I am a little concerned that we have been seeing the same people exclusively. Is this something we should worry about?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Not knowing the four of you and your backgrounds in the lifestyle it is very hard to answer your question.

However, we have seen a number of couples having to deal with difficult situations after getting into monogamous relationships with another couple. We are very careful not to get too close to any particular couple only because we feel that when you get that close to other people... emotional ties are formed... and for us... this is all about fun... with no feelings involved.

There are some people that prefer to become best friends and will only play with those who they have strong relationships with.... some people feel that emotional ties are fun.... its really you guys deciding how you will be able to handle the relationships you form.

Its a fine line.... again we try to avoid any "drama."

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