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Question: How do we deal with a damaged reputation?

Dear Lounge Advice,

We have been in the lifestyle about a year and a half. We have enjoyed many fun times with couples from our area. We are known to be fun, friendly and honest. Sometime ago online at another site someone from a nearby area got us confused with another couple that they had a disagreement with. Now it seems that we have a terrible time meeting people from that area, as this person/couple that got us confused with someone else is damaging our reputation as a honest and real couple. How do we remedy this situation since we have no way of knowing who has been given erroneous information about us.



Dear (Anonymous),

Unfortunately you are learning the how powerful viral marketing and how good and bad news travels over the Internet.

If you know who the couple is… first thing you need to do is send them an email and explain this to them… see if they can send another more positive email out….

Either way… what we would do is add a little note to the bottom of your profile addressing the mistake and explaining that you are being confused with another couple. If it is explained properly…. People will understand….

Hopefully the Lifestyle Lounge is a clear slate for which you can meet many others. Let us know how it goes !

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