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Question: What do you think about couples with the

Dear Lounge Advice,

Last weekend we went to a party that a group runs once amonth out here. We met an attractive couple that were kinda new to the lifestyle. We have no problems with couples that are only into soft swap and are not wanting to have intercourse with others, but this couple had a “no-kissing”rule. We were taken back by that as we had never run into that before.

We liked the couple and enjoyed their company, but we felt that something was definitely missing if we were not able to even kiss them. I pulled my husband aside and asked what he thought of it, and we discussed going ahead without any kissing, but decided it was too weird for us. I mean this girl would let me suck her husbands cock but thought it was too personal to kiss him. Have you ever ran into that before?



Dear (Anonymous),

Yes in fact we have !!! Although we agree with you that it is something we don't understand... we have also learned to respect other couples limitations and restrictions... much like you did.

To us, a kiss is like a passion barameter... and we feel that we can gauge how passionate people are just by the way they kiss...

Some folks think that kissing is getting too personal...and having sex isn't?

Well maybe Clinton was right... maybe oral sex isn't really having sex after all !! LOLOLOL

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