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Question: My wife wants to be with another woman... but she is very shy... any suggestions?

Dear Lounge Advice,
We started in the lifestyle as Susan is bi-curious and wants to be with another woman, but she is very shy, and we have not met many people. Any suggestions?



Dear (Anonymous),

First of all... you need to be patient. It takes a while to be comfortable and at ease... and those vibes are picked-up by people. Give yourselves a break....you can't always expect things to happen right away... and sometimes its better to go slow.... When you were single were you sucessful meeting someone the first few times you ever went out?

The other suggestion is that you go out without any expectations of meeting anyone and just go out to have fun with each other. Fun is contageous... and people seem more attracted to people who are having a good time... and you will never be dissappointed.

People tell us this all the time... you will see... all of a sudden it will just click for you guys !
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