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Question: Should I let my wife go solo with a single male?

Dear Lounge Advice, ME AND MY WIFE HAVE BEEN IN THE LIFESTYLE FOR ABOUT A YEAR AND ARE HAVING A LOT OF FUN. WE MET A MAN THAT WANTS TO GET TOGETHER WITH JUST MY WIFE ALONE NIETHER ONE OF US HAS A PROBLEM WITH IT AND ARE VERRY SECURE WITH OUR OWN RELATIONSHIP BUT WE ARE WONDERING IF THIS IS SOMETHING THAT MAY BECOME A PROBLEM

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

It would be VERY wise to get to know this gentleman VERY well before you ever let your wife disappear into the night with him alone.

If he has any problems with meeting the two of you together and getting to know you both than it is most certainly a sign that this is a bad situation.

The three of you should spend some quality time together first just getting to know each other.
Boundaries should be expressed openly amongst everyone involved.

Once you and your wife both feel comfortable that this single male is of good character and trust worthy you two can experiment with solo "dates" with this single male.

As long as everyone is one the same level and understanding with this situation, then go ahead and give it a try.

If any negative or jealous feelings start to show then definitely call it off.


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