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Question: Intimidated by other beautiful women on LL

Dear Lounge Advice,

This may be silly question but do other women feel a little overwhelmed by the amount of really beautiful women involved in the lifestyle?
Don't get me wrong, I LOVE a beautiful woman, but even though on an everyday basis in the outside world I feel like an attractive woman, I'm finding myself a little insecure with certain body parts and feel that maybe I won't measure up. Does anyone else ever feel that way?



Dear (Anonymous),


Everyone is beautiful in their own special way.

If you are not happy with or feel intimidated by something you feel you are lacking....perhaps you are being more critical of your own self image than intimidated by other pretty women.

If you can pin point the exact areas that are causing you worry...maybe you can take action to
help yourself feel better about yourself.

Men go through the same issues as well.... so you are not alone with your thoughts on this issue.

Taking care of your physical body is only half the solution....self confidence is the key to believing that you are a beautiful person.

Have you ever considered doing a professional erotic photo shoot for your husband or partner?
Many times this can be an incredible self confidence booster.
Many photos are taken with poor cameras and poor photography skills.
You as the subject actually do not always look your best in a lot of these types of photos...even though candid reality is sexy in it's own little way
A true professional photographer can do some amazing work with you and maybe the results will help reinforce your own beauty to yourself.


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