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Question: What is the best way for a single man to enter into this lifestyle
Dear Lounge Advice,
What is the best way for a single male to enter into this lifestlyle.
I've made the decision that this is something I want to do - and just curious to hear some suggestions.
Try attending some lifestlyle parties or events in your area.
They provide a great opprtunity to introduce yourself to other members in person.
If you decide to introduce yourself to a couple you are interested be polite and respectful of everyones boundries ......but most of all.... be yourself and be honest!
There is a fine line between being charming and being a pest.
If a couple or person is interested in you they usually will find a way to you know.
If they are obviousley not interested in engaging or maintaining a converation with you then they are usually telling you that there is no interest in hooking up with you.
It may take meeting couples several or more times before they trust you and warm up to you....so be patient.
If you approach the lifestyle the same way you would approach any kind of date..you will probably have a much more fruitfull experience with lifestyle couples.
The lifestyle is just as much about creating great friendships as it is about enjoying great sex:)
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