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Question: Husband and threesome partner are always talking. Is this a problem?
Dear Lounge Advice,
my husband and i just experiance our first threesome with this hot woman. But now i am having some issues about if he wants he more than me. since our night of pleasure we have not had sex, and they (husband & new girl) are always texting or talking and i am out of the loop.
What should i do and should i be worried?
It sounds like you are dealing with some minor jealousy issues caused by lack of communication between you and your husband.
Try discussing the matter with your husband first and let him know that you are feeling left out.
Good communication is essential to a relationship surviving in the lifestyle atmosphere.
It is not uncommon in couples for one of them to take over in the communication process with other members. Try to get yourself more actively involved in the conversations rather than letting him just handle them.
It most likely is just harmless chatting...but make sure you express your feelings on this to both parties so there are no grey areas for jealousy to develop.
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