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Question: How do I best mix into the scene as a single guy ?

Dear Lounge Advice,
I have recently divorced from a long time marrage to a very pretty and bi woman and have enjoyed playing with two women to the point of being soiled a bit lol my question is that I have found it tuff (as a single fella) to meet other bi fems who would like to have a guy with them for 3 sums. . because my ex was so kewl at arrangeing our play and so many wanted to be with her as much as anything.. how do I best mix into the scene as a single guy ??? I know it is much easyer said than done,.. however I am very experianced and enjoy playing with two women yet need to somehow learn how to meet them without a asist that I have enjoyed for so long ???
Beyond the common answer of just keep trying as best I can.. I am geographicaly challenged and have traveled way more than I had hoped for.. any advice will be listened to and I love your site. . .



Dear (Anonymous),

The best way to meet and mix with members is to try to attend events and parties.

Finding a new play partner may come quickly or may take some time....but until then the best thing to do is try to get yourself exposure and conversation with other members.

Staying active in the Forum and CHAT room can also help build a better rapport with members so that when you meet them in person they have a better idea of who you are,what you are like and what your interests in the lifestyle are.


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