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Question: He introduced me to the lifestyle..now he wants out but I don't..what do we do?

Dear Lounge Advice,

OK, I AM HAVING A GOOD TIME. YEARS AGO MY HUSBAND HAD SUGGESTED GOING TO THE CLUBS. MY REPLY ARE YOU CRAZY. AFTER ALOT OF JUST TRY IT, FOR ME PLEASE. OK WE STARED GOING BUT I HAD TO BE WEARING SHADED GLASSES. TO BE COMFORTABLE. THE FIRST TIME WE ACTUALLY ENCOUNTERED AND SHARED SOME SKIN. IT WAS ALL THAT AND WANT SOME MORE. MORE AND MORE I DID NOT NEED SHADED GLASSES. NOW I'M THE ONE SAYING PEASE DO IT FOR ME. HE WANTS TO STOP. AND I DON'T. WE ARE 30 YEARS TOGETHER, GROWN UP ENOUGH. WHAT IS IT . REALITY SOME TO MUCH. LL IS NOT FOR KIDS OR IMATURE, INSECURE, HUSBANDS IN THIS CASE ANY WAY HOW CAN WE, I ,FIND THE MIDDLE. I AM MONITORED CLOSE, BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO STOP, AND HAVE GONE OUT ON MY OWN.
THIS IS A LIFE HE INTRODUCED ME TO AND I LIKE IT VERY MUCH, NOT JUST THE SKIN, ITS TEH GREAT PEOPLE, I LIKE BEING WITH PEOPLE. PLEASE ADVISE

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

It sounds like you two need to discuss this matter more and come to a solution or agreement sooner than later.

We would suggest that you refrain from going out with out him until you resolve this problem or get his blessing.

Why not take a break for the pysical part of the lifestyle and simply attend events together for fun? Every one needs a break from time to time.

If you can obstain from the physical part of the lifestlyle for a while maybe your husband would be more agreeable to still attending the events with you.

Our best advice would be to make sure your husband is happy at home with you first...and only continue in the lifestyle if you are doing it as a couple with each others blessing.

Sincerely,

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