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Question: can you give me any suggestions based on my profile why I might not be getting any connections?

Dear Lounge Advice,
I am a single guy and have been a member for two months and really like the site. My question is can you give me any suggestions based on my profile why I might not be getting any connections? I have had a few emails and the people seem really nice, but nothing has come of it. I basically state what I am looking for, Nice people for some adult fun, etc.... I have never been to a lifestyle party before, and have had only a few threesome situations in the past. I am very polite and open minded and would like to meet similar couples or women.

any advice about my wording or approach would be sincerely appreciated.
with care.



Dear (Anonymous),

Your approach sounds wonderful.
Attending parties and events in your area is really the best way to introduce your self and get the attention of other members.

It is important to remember that lifestylelounge is not a singles dating site as it was designed for couples.

Be patient and charming and you will find that members will warm up to you as time goes by and they get to know you better.


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