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Question: We wanted to know if it was because of our race or physical appearance that this is happing?

Dear Lounge Advice,

We have been in the lifestyle for about six months and really enjoy it. We are only at the soft swing state now. The question we have is, we have posted an ad and have gotten very few replies. The mail we have sent out has gotten very few responses. We are an average couple (both black) not hard bodies, but not fat either. We wanted to know if it was because of our race or physical appearance that this is happing?

Just curious

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

We would suggest that you two try to attending some LL events or parties in your area and actually meet members in person.

Being active in the Forum and CHAT room on the site also helps make better connection and relationships with other members as well.


Sincerely,




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