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Lifestyle Etiquette
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| A couple shows interest in us in person.. but wont return emails... how do we know how they feel?
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| After a sexual uncounter, the couple's husband invited me out with him, without his wife
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| Another couple is telling others we don't play
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| Another woman took my husband outside and screwed him behind my back
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| Any tips for continued online communication?
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| Are there any non-verbal signs we should know about at clubs?
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| Are there couples who's will be understanding to the newcomers fears?
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| Asking couples to play with the wife only
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| Best way for a single male to introduce himself.
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| Breaking boundaries- should I stress this to my wife?
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| Broken rule
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| Can I ask my hubby if I can play with the couple if he's not interested in the woman?
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| Communicating
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| Confused and cut him off.
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| Couples ask me to play alone.
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| Crossing the line- My wife is giving her number to men at bars
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| DD free?
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| Dealing with unbalanced communication
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| Difficulty communicating and unsure about this LS
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| Disclosing HSV status
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| Discussing
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| Do's and don'ts of the LS
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| Drama Alert! Tuck in yer balls people!
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| Drama!
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| Drunk woman- how do we say we're uncomfy
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| Established boundaries- are we doing something to offend?
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| Excessive texting between hubby and swing partner
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| Excessive touching and attention to other women
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| FYI
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| FYI
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| Hall Pass Etiquette
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| Handing out rejection kindly
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| He invited another woman on our couples date
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| Honesty is the Best Policy
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| Honesty vs. Vague Truths
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| How can I ask her about taking an aids test without demeaning her?
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| How could we have handled this differently?
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| How do I change her mind about kissing rules?
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| How do I handle a man who won't let up?
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| How do I handle excessive alcohol use?
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| How do I let someone know that they're not being sanitary?
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| How do I tell him that I don't like his girl toys sleeping over with him?
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| How do we find a non-shaved woman?
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| How do we garner more interest?
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| How do we improve our chances?
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| How do we know if another couple is interested in my husband or not? Part I
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| How do you ask someone to play?
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| How do you deal with a possessive couple?
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| How do you deal with a problem couple?
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| How do you know if the other couple is disease free?
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| How do you tell someone to wait without turning them off?
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| How explicit do we have to be when we discuss our boundries with other couples?
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| How often should I call them ?
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| How should I write an e-mail to couples showing my interest?
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| How to deal with someone who is lying about you
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| How to deal with uninhibited and risque lifestyle behaviour in public venues when it makes us feel uncomfortable.
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| How to have other couples respect and adhere to your rules for playing.
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| How to tackle suspected posers.
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| I am a single professional who travels a lot.. is it inappropriate of me to write others.. or should I just sit back and wait...?
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| I don't want kissing during our play!
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| I'm receiving a chilly reception from other mens' wives. Help!
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| Ignored rule
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| Interracial Friendly?
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| Introductions into the Lifestyle
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| Is asking my boyfriend to give oral to another man unacceptable?
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| Is it rude to rule out non V-safe individuals for play?
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| Just curious about email response.
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| Language barrier cock block
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| Misunderstanding has led to being a target
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| My friend is flirting WAY too much
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| My woman is doing things that I'm not comfortable with
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| Need a woman's POV
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| New and wondering how to meet others
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| New to the site and wanting to be there if hubby is fooling around- Am I unreasonable?
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| NO CONDOM!!!!
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| Noobs
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| Not interested anymore- How do I tell my significant other?
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| Not returning emails and... How do you deal with it when 1/2 of the couple is new and uncomfortable?
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| Nudity and children
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| Our first experience was a disaster.. did we do anything wrong?
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| Possible correspondence with my hubby's ex- not sure if it's her
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| PTSD:What can I do to help make events more consistently enjoyable for me
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| Reaching out to friends
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| Requesting to see password photos
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| Scamming?
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| Selective and seeking
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| Sex with her best friend's brother? Good idea or not?
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| She told her husband that my man is 'small' and we're very hurt
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| Should I be hurt?
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| Should we ask them if there is a problem?
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| Should we be setting groundrules before contacting others?
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| Should we contact other members ?
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| Should we talk to them about our concerns?
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| Should we warn others about our experiences?
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| Single female seeking the unusual
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| Sketchy communication
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| Smear campaign
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| Smokers making me sick- should I tell them?
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| Some women say they are bisexual but how do you find out what they actually do?
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| Strong vaginal odor- How do I tell my wife?
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| Talking about sex candidly early in conversation
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| Telling others about people with STD's.
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| The 'ol bait and switch- How to avoid
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| The male of the couple is a bit immature in his approach
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| Transitioning into a new relationship arrangement
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| Upsetting or alienating a contact's partner- how to avoid
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| Was her text inappropriate?
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| We are not into rushing into bed with others.. are we off?
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| We aren't comfortable about having full blown sex with other people, but don't want to be shunned.
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| We demand safe sex, but sometimes they don't. What do we do?
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| We found out after the fact that the male in a couple we were with is bi... now we dont want to go there again.. how do we handle this?
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| We met a great couples, had great sex, but we think things were too rushed to enjoy?
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| We set our rules and he broke them the first time out.
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| We think our single male friend is telling people that we are having a relationship.. what should be do?
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| We think we know them
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| We want to be intimate with her, but not him.
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| We want to begin to explore by watching others.. is that considered rude?
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| We were interested in them, but we found out that we already know them!
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| What do you do if other couples start talking badly about you?
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| What do you think about bending our swinging rules in order to find more play partners?
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| What do you think about couples with the
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| What if we run into them at a club or party ?
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| What is a
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| What is your advice on rumors about other couples?
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| Which way do I go next?
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| Who can I trust as friends?
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| Who is talking- the male or female?
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| Who makes first contact more, the male or female?
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| Wife does'nt want a MFM
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| Will our rules limit our potential play partners?
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| As a man, when do I know I am too old to have fun with younger females?
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| Asking for covering of costs
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| Bay Area Booty Call
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| Booty Call incompletions
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| Booty call- etiquette?
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| Booty Call- What is the etiquette?
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| Damage Control
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| Do larger women get dates?
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| Flakes/ Ghosting?
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| Good LS friends always want to party and hook up with just us
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| Goody bag items?
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| Hall Pass
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| Having trouble finding dates on LL
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| Having trouble meeting people
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| he brings a prostitute with him as his partner is this acceptable in the lifestyle?
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| House party invite
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| How common is the hump and dump mentality?
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| How do I best mix into the scene as a single guy ?
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| How do we begin?
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| How to Booty Call and not lure our friends out all the time
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| How to find a couple with my wife's permission
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| Husband shows up
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| I have never been with a woman before and am intimidated by them.
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| If you make arrangements to meet another couple, do you split the bill?
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| Is it rude for of someone to ask me to meet without my husband?
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| Is race playing a part in our progress?
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| Just starting out
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| Looking for More Action
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| My date made me wait for 2 hours w/no apology
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| My wife is very upset about being found out locally
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| New and low success thus far
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| New to online dating
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| No luck- Is this due to race?
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| Non Ken/Barbie types looking to meets others
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| seeking to find cuckold situations in real life…
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| Setting up Booty Calls while traveling
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| Should we bring the hostess a gift?
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| Single woman unsure of how to proceed safely
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| Threesome Frolic
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| Unicorns Wanted
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| We didn't show up- wondering if this is affecting us negatively
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| We met a single bi fem ... but she is married and hubby doesnt know anything about this...
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| What should we wear
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| Who pays the dinner bill?
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| Afraid of being recognized at a lifestyle event
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| Asking others to play- How to do it.
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| Asking someone for proof on STD free
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| Breaking the ice
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| Breaking the ice to play- who should lead?
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| Do we just assume people are disease free or how do you approach this topic?
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| Etiquette for meeting a male for MFM
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| Going too slow?
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| he said he'd help with the hotel cost, but didn't
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| How can we get them to let us in on their fantasies?
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| How can we move forward and get to the play part?
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| How do approach our single male about splitting the cost of a room?
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| How do I convince women who hit on me to come home to my wife and I?
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| How do I invite the female to play?
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| How do I screen people without using this website frequently?
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| How do we approach another couple without seeming too pushy?
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| How do we approach the topic of wanting to play?
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| How do we get people talking at parties?
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| How do we know if another couple is interested in my husband or not? Part II
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| How do we make couple feel more at ease around us?
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| How do we make sure both individuals from a couple are interested and not just one.
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| How do we meet couple who aren't established?
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| How do you bring up the acutal question about playing?
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| How should I set this up for my wife?
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| How to handle a first meeting with a couple or single
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| I am desperate to figure out how to solve this new concern
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| I only want the female
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| Looking for some singles
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| Meeting for first time but now they are bringing a single male along...what to do?
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| Meeting for friendships and NOT for sex right now!
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| Men not wanting to do oral
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| New and wondering
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| New to the hobby
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| New to this and nervous about my first party
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| Newbie expectations
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| Newbies wondering how to bring up the swing subject to others
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| One way street dilemma
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| Overcoming extreme shyness in social situations
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| Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
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| Pushy male continues to make advances
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| Should I reveal beforehand that I am extremely well endowed?
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| Slow progress so far
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| Someone I didn't know was entirely too forward
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| Starting out
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| The proper way to meet new friends
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| They never offer to pay for the drinks- what to do?
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| Very Nice to Meet You
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| We have a hard time initiating the physical act.. any suggestions?
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| What is the best way for my wife to follow through with her excitement of being with another woman?
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| What is the best way to approach a couple we are interested in?
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| What is the typical way to first meet?
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| What to talk about when out on a 'date'
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| Who should initiate the first move sexually?
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| worried about him now agreeing to go & us being ignored
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| A Voyeur
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| All in...or pause button
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| Asking ladies about 'receiving' preferences during BJ's
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| Broken Rules or MisCommunication?
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| Can you help us with some
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| Condom Etiquette
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| Condoms were laid out by both of us, but he barebacked her anyways
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| cream pies
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| Dealing with a woman who is 'not so fresh'
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| Dealing with more girl-girl and less full swap action
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| Did I violate a 'length of playtime' rule?
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| Ending play if things get weird
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| Exhibitionism
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| Exhibitionism :)
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| Finding out how promiscous another couple is
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| He wants to play but I do not- What is fair?
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| Health disclosure
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| His bad B.O. turns me off during oral sex
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| House swapping
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| How do I let the ladies know that it's that time of the month?
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| How do we get people to leave at the end of the night?
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| How do we handle less than fresh ladies?
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| How do we make sure nobody feels left out?
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| How do you stop playing when you're not having fun or something about the other couple is bothering you?
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| HPV- spilling the beans
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| I just don't want us perceived as bed post notchers!
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| In a 3sum with another man, is there proper ettiquite to tell him it is ok to fuck me?
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| Is it appropriate to kiss and cuddle with your swapping partner?
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| Is it okay for us to split up and play?
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| Is there a proper way to stop playing if things are not going well.
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| Lack of being approached
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| MFM when the other F was asleep
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| My wife doesn't come during play with others
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| Nipple fluid?
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| Not comfortable in a group sex room..what to do?
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| Not getting my fair share
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| Not getting my fair share II
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| Oral Sex Condoms
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| other wives get turned off, jealous, and annoyed
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| Party Time ;)
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| Playing and leaving shortly afterwards- Rude?
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| She's not fresh! What to do?
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| Should I ask the partner before playing?
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| Should I keep going if the other husband can't get an erection?
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| Should I tell his wife he tried to do me w/o a condom?
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| Should we do a threesome w/her behind her fiancee's back?
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| Squirter has me worried!
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| Squirting concerns
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| The man of a couple grabbed my husband's crotch unexpectedly
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| Too early for action?
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| Vaginal odor- What to do if the other women seems unfresh
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| Was I wrong to stand my ground about condoms?
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| Wheelchair/Walker- Will we be accepted?
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| A 'couple' profile turned out to be a self-admitted cheating male
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| Am I allowed to be on LL and will others understand I am part of a couple but seeking adventures on my own?
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| Are some albums Photoshopped?
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| Article
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| Asking to prove we exist as a couple is insulting.
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| Boo-Boo
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| Bookmarking interesting couples
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| can you give me any suggestions based on my profile why I might not be getting any connections?
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| Checking read mail
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| Female dominated photos
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| Female unsure of classification
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| Finding other members
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| Getting Noticed
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| Getting Noticed
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| Going from being a couple to a single male and Picture Posting Etiquette.
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| How do I use this website to find someone?
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| How do I get more attention?
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| How do I get noticed?
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| How do we get more people to view our profile?
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| I'm not getting any responses
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| My hubby does not want to submit photos to validate, which makes it very hard for us
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| New and wondering how to interact
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| No responses
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| Not getting many hits- What should we do to improve our chances?
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| Photo comments
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| Pictures
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| Private pic viewing etiquette
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| Profile changes
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| Profile personality for single males- make yourself stand out!
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| Profile review- What are we doing wrong?
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| Profile text thieving
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| Questionable profile
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| Rated and real-sealed without any encounters yet
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| Real Seal action
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| Real seal concerns
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| Real Seal Question
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| Reluctant to post pics
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| Responses
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| Single male NOT like his pictures at all
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| Stating interest in LTR- yes or no?
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| Trying to improve, but getting no respect
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| Username okay?
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| Verifying that photos of members are real
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| We are both new to this....
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| We are taking a break from the Lifestyle.. what should we say in our profile?
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| What are we doing wrong?
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| What else should our profile entail to entice people.
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| What to do when their pictures don't really look like them?
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| Whitelisted Photos
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| Why not more pics of the men in most profiles?
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| Wish List
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| A couple made plans with us, cancelled, then went out with someone else!!
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| After seeing their pictures realized that there was no physical attraction.
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| Blocked- Should we try to ask them why they have us blocked?
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| Blown off twice after one encounter
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| De-friending
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| Declining a friend's attempt to match me up
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| Disabilities in the Lifestyle
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| Disability in the Lifestyle
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| Disappearing act- A couple drove off while we were following them to the next club.
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| Etiquette for turning down requests for repeat play
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| Giving out Rejections..Not interested in being anything more than friends.
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| How can I be honest without hurting their feelings?
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| How do I say I'm not interested, without hurting their feelings?
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| How do politely say
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| How do we deal out rejection?
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| How do we let them know we don't want to play again?
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| How do we tell a couple that we dont wish to play anymore?
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| How do we tell long term playmates that we no longer want to play with them?
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| How do we tell our friends we're not interested in sex?
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| How do we tell them we no longer wish to play?
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| How do you reply to emails of people you are not interested in?
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| How do you respond to an Interracial couple who you are not interested in?
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| How do you tell a couple that there is no sexual attraction?
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| How do you tell a couple you are not interested after reading about them?
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| How to politely say no to playing with another couple, because you are only interested in one half of the couple.
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| How to turn down friends who want the benefits too
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| How to turn others down
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| How to turn someone down
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| I want to move forward but dont with to hurt my close friend who may have expectations.
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| I'm not sure how I should respond?
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| Infection souring further dates
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| Is it considered rude for my wife to not want to play with someone's husband?
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| No
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| Not interested in a couple and they're not taking the hint
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| Not into you, but how do I tell you?
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| Polite way to convey that you're not a match
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| Rejection- Will others handle it well?
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| She is attracted to my man, my man is attracted to her, her man is attracted to me, but I am NOT attracted to him. What should I do?
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| Should we try to work it out with the other couple ?
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| The awkward unwanted pursuit after a few play sessions.
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| Too close for comfort. What do we do?
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| Turning down play offers
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| We have become good friends with a couple... but are not interested in playing with them anymore... how do we tell them?
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| We have become very close friends with another couple, but do not wish to play with them anymore. How do we tell them?
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| We meet couples we are not attracted to.. but want to remain friends...How do you tell them?
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| We're not interested in play with our friends anymore- How to break the news?
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| What is your advice for avoiding awkward situations when you aren't interested in a couple?
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| What would your response be to those we are not interested in
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| A few questions...
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| Advice for single males
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| Advice for single males.
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| Advice to single males.
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| Approaching others as a single male
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| As a single male, what is the best way to get into the lifestyle?
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| As a SM, should I send a thank you for the 3-some experience?
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| As a transgender male, what do you think my chances are of finding a female to join me in the lifestyle?
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| Attending a party with a date- being questioned
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| Best way to meet a single male for a MFM
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| Dress code
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| Follow up e-mail etiquette
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| General advice for single males
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| Getting noticed
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| Horrible experience with a single male
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| How do we find a decent single male
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| how does a new member who is a single male meet local couples in his area?
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| How to approach?
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| How to find a single bi female to join me in the LS
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| How to make single male play happen again
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| How to overcome the single male stereotype
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| I am a single male and thought I did the right thing with a couple.. can you make suggestions in this situation?
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| I want to get involved, but have a hard time.
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| I'm a single male- Is there something wrong with us?
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| I'm married and a single male is not respecting this
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| Is it hopeless for a single male?
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| Is this site just for couples and SF's?
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| Jealous single male
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| Male playing single with wife's consent
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| Married Male
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| Married single looking to swing without wife
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| Needing more attention
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| New single male needs advice
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| Not being allowed to view certain profiles as a single male
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| Recently split- starting out again.
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| Seeking a LS friendly partner
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| Should we ask for references from a single male?
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| Single and searching a partner in crime.
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| Single guy looking to get certified
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| Single guy wondering what to do
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| Single looking to meet others
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| Single male
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| Single Male advice
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| Single Male advice
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| Single male groups?
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| Single Male Invites
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| Single male just starting out
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| Single male looking for advice
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| Single male looking to get into the scene
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| Single male looking to get involved
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| Single male looking to meet new people
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| Single male needs advice
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| Single male new
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| Single male seeking
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| Single male seeking Real Seal
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| Single male seeking swinging partner
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| Single male starting out
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| Single male starting out
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| Single male starting out
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| Single male that is actually married
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| Single Male validation
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| Single male validation
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| Single male wanting better odds
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| Single male wondering why I can't get laid
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| Single male wondering why I'm not getting much play
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| Single male, getting started
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| Single Male- How to conduct myself successfully?
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| Single male- Trying to rejoin the LS after many years
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| Single Men, This is a Turnoff !!
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| Size and standards
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| Small. Soft, and free to run off. Sadly,, it wasn’t a kitten
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| SMS - Single Male Syndrome
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| Sngle Male looking for help
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| The best way for a single male to contact couples
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| What Events or Clubs are single males allowed to attend?
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| What is the best way for a single man to enter into this lifestyle
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| What is the best way for single man find a couple to play with?
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| What's the etiquette for approaching single men for myself?
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| Young Guy starting out
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| Young single male starting out
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| 10year celebration-Finding a single woman
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| Alerting other to behavior of a single female
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| As a single female, I feel like an invited guest
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| Best way to meet single women
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| Calling All Unicorns
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| Finding single females
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| How does a single female handle the LS on her own for the 1st time?
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| How to approach a female for a 3some
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| How to get the elusive single bi-fem (pay close attention)
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| I am a straight single female.. are there any couples that would be interested in me?
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| I have a single male friend that I play with
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| Is it inappropriate for us to advertise for a SF to accompany us?
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| Is the search for a SF futile?
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| It is really hard to find a single serious female to play with . We are really new to the lifestyle, any idea where to look ?
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| Just starting out... how do we find a single bi fem.
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| Lied to be married man- wife found out
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| Looking for the Unicorn
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| Meeting single women
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| New single female to the scene- How to start?
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| New to this and unsure of how to proceed
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| Newly single female to the scence
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| Newly single unicorn
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| Pursuing a single female
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| SF being bugged for real seals
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| SF breaking the ice
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| Short cuts to getting a single female for play
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| Single female asking essential questions
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| Single female looking for a single male partner
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| Single female seeking others to go out with
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| Single female unsure of how to deal with couples sometimes
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| Single female wondering how to proceed
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| Single female- How not to feel like a 3rd wheel
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| Single females- how are they perceived?
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| Single lady looking for a first experience
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| The formula for snagging a unicorn
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| Unicorns in the Lone Star State
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| Unicorns Rising
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| Wanting a FMF- As a single female, how do I arrange it?
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| Wanting to give my boyfriend the FMF fantasy
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| Wanting to take a less passive role as a SF
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| What is a single female's motivation?
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| another member added us to their wishlist. Very nice, but what now...?
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| Being the star of someone's blog and not wishing to be
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| Best way to contact others
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| Best way to make an introduction
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| Best ways to use this site
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| Can we post pics of others from a party in the event section?
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| E-mail sent then unsent
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| Easy Certification
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| Etiquette for wishlisting and whitelisting
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| Etiquette...
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| Getting Noticed
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| How to ask someone to blur out our faces
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| How to respond to wish lists
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| I Like What I Like
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| IM etiquette
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| Inexperienced at meeting people online
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| Judge of Character vs. Real Seal
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| New and not getting responses
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| New to site and seeking
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| No answer to emails
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| No one responds
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| One night encounter- no correspondence afterwards
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| Our e-mail was posted in the forums
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| Post play Etiiquette
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| Posting others' photos without permission
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| Should I contact the member who invited me here?
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| Should I give him the real seal?
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| Should I return wishlists?
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| Should we or shouldn’t we include our faces.
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| someone took my photos and gave them to another person. What can I do to prevent this?
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| Testimonial returns- What is the common practice?
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| Testimonial- Should I leave it up for someone who stood me up?
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| Testimonials- Tricks to writing
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| The male half is posing as the female in the forum. What should I do?
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| To Block or not to Block
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| Trying to IMpeople
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| What do we do if some members add us to their wish list?
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| What is the protocol related to the wish list?
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| Whose Checking Me Out!
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| Why are people non-responsive and/or rude?
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| Why do people just delete and email instead of replying and saying they are not interested?
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| Why don't people respond?
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| Wish list?
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| Wishlist etiquette
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| Wishlist- not ready yet
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| Wishlisting
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| Would it be wrong to e-mail them back and tell them that they are rude?
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| Asked if we were swingers at a vanilla bar
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| Could you suggest a way for us to find out if our friends would be interested without embarrassing them or us?
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| How do we ask our friends if they are in the lifestyle?
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| How do you approach a non-swinging friend that you are insterested in her sexually?
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| How to find out if a 'regular' someone is into swinging
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| How to find out if vanillas are interested in the lifestyle
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| I'm not sure my friend is ready for this- How do I help him?
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| Meeting vanilla friends in the LS
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| Vanilla turning Chocolate
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| We are attracted to our vanilla neighbors
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| 10 Years of Advice-A Resurrection
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| Age perceptions
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| Hot wife playing matchmaker for her boytoy
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| I am seeking dirty sex, like pissing on each other. Am I asking too much? And will woman really want to to explore this act as part of sex?
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| Married male posing as a single is saying false things about us
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| Married man looking for 'teacher'
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| Photos depicting those who potentially don't know they'll be posted on a LS site
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| Playing with a commited (but not married) couple. What do we do?
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| undescended testicle
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| We were at a club, and I found that I had my period...
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| Tell me how I can speed things up a little.
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