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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
The Bi’s the limit ;)
Nipples or no nipples...how do you feel
more sexual advice advice
Lifestyle Etiquette
Oral Sex Condoms
Condom Etiquette
more etiquette advice
Relationship Advice
SM looking for partner
Disrespect/Abuse vs. Perspective
more relationship advice
Friendships, Clubs & More...
Like minded individuals
Real Seal
more friendship advice
  
Friendships, Clubs & More...
Armpit hair
Ball shaving
Bikini Zone
Blemishes- Large ones!
Brazilian vs. Shaving
Breast aud
Breast augmentation
Breast augmentation
Breast enhancement pills
CMT Services- Should this be offered here?
Embarassed of tummy
Fleas, crabs and shaving
Hair removal options
How do I shave my balls?
How do I tell my lady that she smells unpleasant down there?
How long does it take for fake breasts to 'drop'?
Keeping the posterior smooth without irritation
Laser hair removal
Laser hair removal altering vaginal taste?
Laser removal
More and more unappealing looking people at parties
Piercing
Pre-party tanning fix
Private part hair removal
Red bumps on my backside- How to eradicate
Removing hair around the anus
Scarring- Will people look at me differently?
Scars- A breast lift has left me with embarassing marks
Shaving bumps- Are there any prducts to prevent this?
Shaving irritation
Shaving preferences in the LS
Shaving- How much is necessary?
Tips on dressing slutty
Tips on getting firmer and hotter fast
To shave or not to shave
Unhappy shaving experiences
Using a men's razor to keep smooth
What is the best device or procedure? Male pubic hair removal.
What should I do about my perceived flaws?
686 e-mails the first week?
After 11 weeks, we found out that they have multiple rules
After a break-up and an ex's negative comments about me, how do I keep friends?
Age difference and alternative look-ok?
Any ideas on the best environments to mingle in to meet another open-minded companion.?
As a bicurious female, should I wait until I meet a girl who just rocks my world to go all the way?
As a single female, where is the best place for me to find another single female for a fling?
As a single male, what is the best way for me to find a bi-female?
Big Pimpin'
Can you help me find black bi curious women?
Can you help me meet someone?
Can you help us finding the right MFM, MFF, and couples chemistry. Finding what is right for us.
Chances of meeting a like-minded lady?
Couples in the Toronto, Buffalo area
Email Invitations
Finding a female partner in crime for the LS
Have I come to the right place?
Having a hard time hooking up
Having difficulty meeting others from LL
Hooking up with another female lifestyler
How can I meet LS friendly single females?
How can we live our fantasy?
How common are straight couples?
How do we form successful friendships?
How do we get more replies to our emails?
How do you ask someone to join you?
How should I get my vanilla man into this?
How to connect with other LL'ers
How to find people I met at a party, but didn't exchange info
I am going from being a couple to being a single and I am alittle shy.
I am single and want to meet another single in the Lifestyle for a relationship... do you think that would work?
I'm a single female having difficulty making connections
I'm not one bit interested in women, and we are having trouble finding compatable couples.
I'm not sure I have the right look to be here.
I'm not sure if I have the right look for this
Im a 19 year old single bi female... why am I having trouble meeting couples/females to play?
Is it common for peole to be close friends then fade off
Is it possible to find a couple to form an exclusive relationship where we can have sex without condoms?
Is it time for us to quit?
Is it too late for us to start siwnging?
Lack of success
Making the connection and finding what we seek
Married man finding a fem lifestyler- can I?
My ex wife and I were in the Lifestyle.. now that I am single.. what should I do?
My girlfriends and I have broken up, and I would like to find another girlfriend in the lifestyle.
New
no luck,what kind of approach do i need to have??
No responses- why?
No success yet- need tips
Not much luck yet
Please advise on what we can do to enhance our swinging experience.
Profile review
Real vs. Fake
Seeking a partner in crime for the LS
Should we just give up?
Single male can't find playmates
SM looking for seal and FWB
The LS in Canada
There aren't any matches near us
Theripists in the lifestyle
Tips to better the chances of meeting people
trial email members
Wanting a bi-female partner to meet other bi-females
We are a young attractive couple and afraid that all the lifestyle couples are just old and ugly... what can we do to feel more assured that there are couples like us.
We are going away and want to meet other couples.. what is the best way?
We are having trouble finding playmates.
We have not found many couples with bi-sexual females.
We have very specific rules... will we be able to find someone?
We live in a remote area... how do we find Lifestyle people? And whats with the guy pics?
We met a single girl and a single guy and planned to play together.. but they wanted to play alone with each other... should we try again with them?
We need some help getting started... things are not happening as quickly as we had hoped. Any suggestions?
We want to find a woman who will just play with the lady.. and let my boyfriend watch... any suggestions on where to find her?
We wanted to know if it was because of our race or physical appearance that this is happing?
We're finding it hard to hook up here
We're in our 50's. How will our age affect us in the LS?
We're ready, but not finding what we're looking for.
We're shy and having trouble finding action
We're young and people judge us on our age. How do we fit in?
What am I doing wrong?
What are we doing wrong?
What is it about us that is not attracting people?
What is the
What is the best way for new members to meet other couples?
What is the best way to find someone fun?
What should we do??
Where can we can search for people who dont mind BBW????
Why am I not successful on this site?
Why aren't I getting any inquiries?
Why is no one contacting us? We are attractive!
Will we find fun here?
Being religious and in the LS at the same time
Coming out as an alcoholic- will this change how others feel about me?
Convicted of Sexual Assault
Crossing the line
How does one reconcile one's faith with swinging?
I am very bi-curious but was raised that sex is very serious. How do I start exploring?
Im dealing with personal issues now.. should I take a break from the Lifestyle?
Mortified Parent
Relgion vs. Lifestyle
420
420 friendly
420 friendly
420 friendly
420 friendly, revisited
Acronyms
BBC?
BBW
BC
BDSM
Bi comfortable- a nebulous term defined in my eyes
Bi Labels
Bi- what?
Bi-comfortable
BIF?
BTW
Bulling?
Common LS Lingo
Cuckold
Dark Side
Difference between hall pass and permission slip
DP
DP
DP
DP
DP and DVP
DP Question
DP vs. DVP
DP, DVP
DP?
DP?
DP?
DVP
Flogging
Full circle?
Full vs. Soft Swap- What is the difference?
FWB
Greek
Hall Pass?
Hall Pass?
HWP
HWP
HWP
HWP
HWP
HWP
HWP
HWP and 420
HWP?
Lifestyle Acronyms
Lifestyle lingo
Lifestyle terms
Lifestyle Terms and Abbreviations
Lifestyle terms and definitions
MFM
MILF
MILF
MILF?
MILF?
MMF or FFM
NSA
NSA
NSA
Off premise
Polyamory
Progressive Swingers
Rim Job
Salad tossing
Singles- Swingers or not?
Soft swap
Soft Swap
Soft swap
Soft swap boundaries?
Soft swap limits
Soft swap?
Soft swing
Soft vs. Full
Soft vs. Full swap
Spooning
Terms
Unicorn
Unicorn
Vanilla
Vanilla
Vanilla meaning
Vanilla?
Vanillas
With benefits
YIM?
...
?
Another sick pervert bothering Robyn
Another third nip
Black socks?
Bodyguard application for Robyn
Dear Lounge Advice
Extra Long Danglies
Foot Master
Fruit Fetish
Hmmm...
Hook Line and Sinker!
Lizard Loving Geeks lookin' for lovin'
Man has iguana fetish
Masturbation- Will I go blind?
Math lesson for you swappers out there
Meeeeeemories
No Subject
Nutpins and piss
Pedazzling the long lost foreskin
Pickle God
Post orgasm sneezing *ahem*
Reindeer Fetish- Good or Bad?
Robyn punked again?
Sheep ED
Snoring Dog
Stolen LL flag
The title for this one eludes me...completely.
This asker is way beyond my help
Um...
Um.........
Um?
WTF???
Are lifestylers mostly perfect bodies?
Awarding the Real Seal
Bloggin’
Bondage photos
Camshow
Can you help us write a profile?
Certification
Changing our Profile
Complimentary members- Do they have e-mail capabilities?
Complimentary memberships
Confirming a profile is real
Couple or single?
Dual Profiles
Email
Erotic Photos
Erotic photos
Erotic photos
Erotic photos?
How do I find an erotic photographer in my area?
How do we find a particular member?
How to change my membername and upload pictures from an Ipad
How to get more involved without a validation
How to get real sealed
How to get recertified after a divorce
How to update my profile
Intimate photos
Joining LL- Wondering
Lack if interest thus far
Looking for a photographer in Denver
Managing Our Videos
Narrowing searches, etc.
New profile picture
Not getting the attention
Party invites
Password Protected
Photos in the LA area
Potential posers?
Profile
Profile advice
Profile needs
Profile pics that are heavily 'women-centered'
Profile Review
Profile Review
Profile Review
Profile views
Profiles that may not be genuine
Protecting pictures- We fear being outed
Real Seal
Real Seal
REAL seal
Real Seal
Real Seal
Real Seal
Real Seal
Real Seal
Real Seal Status
Rotated Images
Rumor MIll Squisheroo
Searching by sexual preference
Searching hung black males
Sending IMs
Signing up and slowing down
Single to Couple
Status?
Unread mail
Uploading photos
Validation
Validation
Validation info
Validations?
Want to load pics, but my hubby is in Iraq
We are looking to have some hot photos taken.
We are not photogenic when it comes to face pictures but we are not ugly. Should we send them?
We can't upload pics to our profile. What can we do to get better responses to our ad?
We don't wish to post face pics.
Well-Endowed
What does a gold star next to a name mean?
Where can we get our more risque photos developed safely?
White list
White list
White List Baby
Who has listed us as their friend?
Who has marked me as a friend?
Why are we having trouble getting others' attention?
Why women are the primary sex objects
Wishlist?
XXX pictures and White Listing
Advice for newcomers
Getting started in the LS
How do I get my partner involved in the Lifestyle?
How do we first start participating at a swing club?
How do we start?
How to get started
How to joing the LS as former single players now as a couple
I want to be with another woman.. how do I start?
Is it too soon for us to enter the lifestyle?
Joining the groups on LL
Meeting new friends
My husband and I have decided to try the lifestyle. How do we get started?
My loving wife and I are very interested in getting started, but completely unsure how to?
New and wondering what to expect
New to the LS and wondering how to start
Pros and cons of joining the swinger scene
Single male breaking in
Single male wanting to joing the LS
Vegas? Rejection? First timers
Wanting to get started but unsure of which venue to choose
We are a very new young couple interested in exploring the lifestyle... any suggestions ?
We want to experience new things but we have NO CLUE on how to initiate things.
We're new, so what do we do??
What should we expect at our first swingers party?
Where to start
Where to start with social functions
Without getting our hopes up too high, what are our chances of finding another couple to play with our first night out?
Advice to single males and clubs.
Amxious about trying out a swing club
Anyone care to help here?
Are BBW welcome at such events?
Are there any party's where single males are welcome?
Are there any places less expensive that have the freedom of Hedonism?
Bachelor party
Best way to find clubs while traveling
Cali clubs
California Dreamin’
Carribean vacations
Carry on baggage. What should you not pack in it?
Changing my location for Travel
Charlotte bi scene
Clothing Optional Resorts
Club Vegas
Clubbing
Clubbing
Clubbing Clothes websites
Clubs in Orange County
Clubs in South Florida area
Clubs in Twin City area
Clubs- Which are the best?
Desire
Different colored wristbands
Do you know any Bay Area Clubs for married men going alone?
Do you know of any lifestyle friendly B&B's in South Florida?
Do you know of any really romantic restauraunts in the Ft. Lauderdale area?
Event guest list
Fantasy Fest
Finding clubs for those 50 and over.
Finding clubs to get started
Finding other swingers on board a Disney cruise
First on-premise party
First time at a swing club- what to expect
Florida hot spots for swingers
Getting divorced, but still want to go to Hedo
Hedo II or Hedo III
Holland club
How do I find out about social gatherings?
How do we find swing clubs in our area?
How do we find the right advice on swing clubs?
How do we make our house into a party house?
How do we put together a meet and greet?
How to host a p rivate
How to let people know about a meet and greet
I would like to know if there are any swing clubs in the Seattle area?
Is charging for a private swinger party legal?
Italy hotels
LA area clubs
LA Clubs
LA events
Legalities behind throwing a private swinger's party
Local parties and events- How to find!
Local venues
LS clubs in the Redlands area
LS site
Maui clubs
Mexico nudist resorts
Miami clubs
Nearby clubs
New to swing clubs and not sure what to expect
New to the scene..what clubs should we visit
Non-responsive party promoters
NYC nightlife
NYC scene
OK clubs
Orlando Clubs
Paris and London Clubs
Parties and Travel
Parties- How do I find them on LL?
Party Games
Party Organizer
Phoenix clubs
Phoenix venues
Raleigh Clubs
Resorts and unicorns
San Antonio swinging crowd
Seeking couple friendly brothel in Vegas
Sensual massages
Sexy Halloween costumes
Starting a successful swing club
Starting Out
Swing clubs in Virginia Beach area
Swinger bars in MN
Swinger traveling
Swingers clubs in the San Fransisco area
Travel Questions
Travel to Brazil
Traveling- Need help with cruise attendees
Turned down for a Private Party
Unlisted
Vegas Clubbing
Vegas Clubs
Vegas Clubs
Vegas Connections
Vegas New Years
Vegas Party Seekers
Vegas swing scene
Venues besides hotel rooms for play
We are going on vacation to Arizona. Can you recommend a club or social?
We cannot go to the LL Hedo Trip. Are there other good times or places to go?
We cant find people to play with up here.
We want to attend a club, but don't know what to expect.
We were invited to a private party.. what goes on there... and what are expecations of us?
We're new and going to a house party.
What are swing club rules on pre-op transsexuals? Can I attend?
What are the ages of people who go to Lifestyle Clubs?
What if someone recognizes me at a swingers club?
What is the difference between on premise and off premise clubs
What to pack for a sexy excursion......
When is a good time to go to Hedo?
Wher in California can you point us for our evenings?
Where can I locate Leather Friendly/ Non Bondage Clubs in CA?
Where to go?
Where to party in Manitoba?
Which LL events allow single males?
Would lifestyle clubs be a good way to meet some new faces, and kind of get out of our
Caught...in a VERY embarrasing situation!
Fired for appearing to have an alternative lifestyle!
Fired for Being in the Lifestyle
Firefighter worried about discovery in the lifestyle
Found out! We know that are friends at work are swingers too
He wants to mix work and play when I told him not to!
How can we tell our friend?
How do I go about telling friends/family I'm involved in this?
How do we tell our frinds where we met lifestyle couples?
I told my vanilla friends about the LS
My mom is starting to make comments about how against the lifestyle.
Neighborly Curious
Our daughter found out what we do!
Our kids are grown up..should we tell them we are swingers?
OUTED in a small town
Running across people you know
Seeing a fellow lifestyler in the gym
Staying discreet as professionals in the LS
Vanilla friends- How do we bring them into the lifestyle?
We have played only when traveling and fear our neighhbors.
What do you do when a co-worker finds your pictures online, and makes threats against you?
What if someone from this site recognized us in a public place
What should I tell my co worker?
Worried that people from my work may have found out about our online ads.
805
A child is threatening to hurt herself
Advice complaint addressed
Anon?
Anonymous oops!
Booty Calls
Correct penis measurement techniqe
Epiphany
Female/Female couples
Getting into the adult video business
Groups for sexual abuse survivors
How do I tell my husband his spelling sitnks?
How should we handle knowing that a spouse on LL is
How to post parities
I am a quadrapalegic and people seem to be scared off by my wheelchair.. anything you suggest we do?
I found my LL profile on a site I don't belong to!
I introduced a single friend to my old boyfriend and now they are dating.
I think my wife was drugged
I travel a lot.. what is the best way to get Lifestyle info for travelers?
I want to rent my house for porn movies
I'm just needing some insight on this selfish lifestyle?
In need of an open dentist.
Issues with software
Kind words :)
Lambskin skirt
Lightbulb
Looking to sublet condo to an LL single female
Medication
My fellow single femlae 'friend' is badmouthing me to others
Needing a pro dom for hire
One of life's greatest mysteries- unveiled
oops
Owner of local party cornered me alone and wouldn't take no for an answer
Porn film- How do I get a role in one?
Posting an offer to help those who lost home in South Cali
Random act of kindness
Rings worn on the right hand
Robyn is stumped.
Self-perceived imperfections
Shooting an adult film
Singles who are actually married
Sleeping habits
Smokers
Sober sex- I want to try the experience
Someone on this site is a registered sex offender. What to do?
Steroids?
Suspected spousal abuse
Swingers' sign- ankle bracelet? True or not?
Thank you
Thanks
Thanks
Thanks
Thanks!
Thanks!
The flag?
Thumb Ring= Bi woman?
Trying to drug my wife to swing?? (I think)
Vegas Clubs
Viagra
Vulture Bitch
What does it mean when a married women wears her wedding ring on the right hand during parties?