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Member Since:   4/3/2002
City:   BEAVER
State:   AR
Zipcode:   72613
Gender/Status:   Couple
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Preference:   Female is Bisexual I'm Straight
Age:   41 42
Height:   5' 4" 6'
Weight:   116 lbs - 125 lbs 136 lbs - 150 lbs
Eye Color:   Brown Brown
Hair Color:   Brown Brown

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If we take you off the whitelist, and you have a sincere interest in meeting SOON please send us an email and we will see about getting you back on there.


We are both fit, sincere, and fun. We like sex and occasionally we invite others to share in our good time.

He is respectful, skilled, Dominant, and as assertive as you want him to be.

She is non-aggressive, submissive, and wants you to be as assertive as you and Mr AaA agree will be a good time - yes, she really is that type of submissive sexual personality.

We enjoy a wide range of experiences with only few very firm boundaries. We don't meet others very often, maybe a couple occasions per year and some years not at all. We use condoms for non-oral sex. We get STD tested from privatemdlabs.com and are happy to discuss safer sex.

We are very sex positive and not shy about having conversations about our interests, in fact we hope you want to discuss your interests ahead of time via email before meeting as it allows us all to go further into our comfort zones once we meet up and we find that everyone has vastly more fun when we meet in person if we have discussed our interests/disinterests ahead of time.

We wishlist people we have an initial interest in and want to passively flirt with - this site feature makes it easier to find people we might want to get deeper into contact with when we travel.

We whitelist people we hope will enjoy seeing more of us and whom we hope to see more of.

We email people we feel we area bit more likely to actually meet. If we don't think we are likely to actually meet, we are probably not going to email you - even if we think we would be a great match (or hope we would be).

We've been doing this long enough to know how to use our time wisely while also usefully sorting people's profiles for both immediate and future reference. So, please understand that if we don't wishlist you, we aren't flirting with you. If we do wishlist you, but don't email - it is because we don't see it likely that we will meet, but think you sound awesome. If we whitelist you, we are flirting a bit more aggressively and hope you find us interesting enough to take long term note of our interest.
  Describe what you are looking for: 
  I want to be straightforward with this as we find that really helps identify good matches.

With Couples: Dominant men and sexually explorative &/or submissive women are our best fit. (Generally speaking: Men who are not confident, respectfully assertive, or who are at all timid sexually are a very poor match for her.)

Single Men who would enjoy talking with Mr AaA about your interests such that we can make plans to have an experience that makes use of my wife's innate submissive nature are the type we are looking for. If you have difficulty with erections, or have a below average sized cock, you aren't the single guy we are looking for... Also, Mr AaA isn't under servicing the Mrs. We are interested in single men who enjoy working together with a Dom husband to fuck the Mrs as a team.

Women who are at least somewhat comfortable with a bit of woman to woman sexual contact is a strong preference, if we are not separate room swapping. The group energy is something we like and the f/f interplay is part of what we enjoy in that experience. It is not a requirement, but it is enjoyed. Women who like respectful, sexually attentive, yet sexually assertive men are our best match. If you have an interest in exploring something new, I am comfortable with and quite enjoy moving a partner through new or challenging experiences.

Mr AaA is not a good match for women who are looking for him to be a sub male partner.

We are comfortable with separate room experiences, but we prefer that they happen simultaneously, not on different occasions.

We are quite comfortable with group experiences as well. (3, 4, or more-somes, etc...)

We are not solely only into sex with black men (though we are totally open to it.) Our photos that include black men are simply because we recently met a few men who were totally ok with pics being taken. Most of the other photos we have with other people are a few years older, so we have taken most of those off the profile due to age. So, as a result, there's a disproportionate amount of profile pics that are of Mrs AaA fucking black men. We don't care at all what race you are. Please just have a hard (preferably average or above average sized) cock.

We are also happy to meet single women. We are somewhat flexible in regard to the type of experience we share with a single woman. It can include kinky elements if you wish, or can be relatively simple based on your preferences.

I, Mr AaA, enjoy discussing sex with others and the vast majority of all communication from us is done by me.

I enjoy making plans, sharing our interests, as well as getting to know your likes, dislikes, and kinks, etc...

If you have an interest in experiencing a specific thing, please bring it up. Don't be timid. It is fun for me to discuss details and get to know people's kinky ideas of a good time. If our ideas and your ideas don't fully match up, that is perfectly ok - surely we can find some common ground. So, please speak up. You aren't being overly forward if you ask whether we are into xyz things you really like. We may not be into it, but we will be respectful in how we tell you we are not into it, and will likely try to bridge the interest gap with more discussion to see if there is something we are all into that would still make meeting fun. We are all here to make friends with people who like to fuck, so please know we embrace things that might seem weirdly forward and graphic to some people as a completely normal type of conversation.

For example: (If we have exchanged a cursory introductory flirtation that seems to be mutual to you...) Feel free to ask if my wife enjoys forced throat fucking, if that is a kink that really makes your cock hard. Go ahead and ask if I am experienced at using a belt if being spanked as a "naughty girl" is something that gets you excited. Or if anything specifically does not get you excited. I am not into male male sexually focused energy, but I don't double vaginal penetration doesn't bother me. Talk about whatever you do or don't like, we will accept your interests and respect your boundaries and point of view.

Always wanted to learn how to enjoy anal sex? Wanted to watch your man learn by fucking another woman in the ass while you watch my wife and I teach him? Ever wanted a woman to clean your man's cock after he pulls out of you (aka "Fuck Licking")? Want to see how any of a wide range of bdsm gear is used? We aren't hardcore into anything, but we LOVE exploring sex and have a good and responsible grasp of quite a lot. Want someone to take photos of you and your partner fucking? Like to flirt with someone other than your partner out in public? (This we have to do well away from our hometown area...) Want to be blindfolded while people excite you? Want to tease someone else who is blindfolded? Want to have a woman greet you (for the very first time) at a hotel room door and kiss you before immediately sinking to her knees to start sucking you (or your husband's) cock? Ever wanted to be that woman who kisses someone you've never met at the door before sinking to your knees to suck his cock? Really, life is too short not to speak up and discuss your interests. These are just a tiny sample of the things we have discussed and or done with other people.

Open conversation ahead of time really makes every single thing you have ever thought you wanted to try a possibility.

Always wanted to meet a couple who will help you try out that fantasy you have where (insert that one thing you think about when you masturbate) happens to you in a safe and positive setting? That's us. We play well with newbies and veterans alike. While I am not going to pretend we are experts at everything under the sun, we do have quite a range of experience from our personal sex lives and are open to helping people explore their known favorites or some new things.

For us, we do like to be sure there is mutual interest and a realistic likelihood of meeting, but if that is the case... let's see what makes each other tick!

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"That is the saving grace of humor, if you fail no one is laughing at you."
- A. Whitney Brown
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