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Member Since:   4/3/2002
City:   BEAVER
State:   AR
Zipcode:   72613
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Preference:   Female is Bisexual I'm Straight
Age:   39 39
Height:   5' 4" 6'
Weight:   101 lbs - 115 lbs 136 lbs - 150 lbs
Eye Color:   Brown Brown
Hair Color:   Brown Brown

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  Describe your appearance and personality: 
  Note, we are constantly cleaning out our whitelist. If we take you off the whitelist, and you have a sincere interest in meeting SOON please send a regular email (re-whitelisting doesn't send a second email notice even though the LL system acts like it does) and we will see about getting you back on there.


Warning: What follows is an elaborate and random exercise whose boundaries range from the ridiculous to the sincere. Read on at your own risk!


Short version: We don't swing much. We are selective about who we swing with. We have some superficial preferences. We are both fit, though not overly muscular, and we prefer people who also make personal fitness a high priority. We are friendly and low pressure, but when it is time for it, we have intense and passionate sexuality. We have a wide range of play experience and preferences. We can't meet at the drop of a hat due to having a family and work requirements.

Long version:

We have a VERY fun and adventurous private sex life and on rare occasions we endeavor to involve other people in it. I guess that makes us swingers, but we feel we participate a lot less than many folks seem to. That being said we do have a fair amount of experience (and a wide variety of experience) from having been participating for several years now.

We have a few (maybe quite a few) kinky interests that we explore with each other. We tend to keep our wildest sex to ourselves unless you ask and show interest: Submissiveness on her party, group sex, DP, semi-public sex, occasional bondage and D/s sex are all some things we engage on occasion, rarely does much of it arise while swinging though. Feel free to ask if you have an interest in any of the above, or if you have an interest we didn't mention. We are pretty easy going sexually and if everyone is having fun we are open to quite a bit. We love being in a sexually exciting environment and so we tend to create one for ourselves if it is otherwise absent.

We find sex is better when it is a question, not an answer... Better when it is about keeping a mystery alive than about revealing a final detail or fact. Sex is best as an exploration of the unknown, even (often especially) when done with people whose sexual dynamics are well known. For him it is not about a climax so much as it is about a long period of arousal. For her, she often likes - in the end if not throughout - to feel a man's need to fuck and for him to choose to use her however he wants to make himself cum.

Appearance... that is easiest left to photos, though photos tend to show the best of appearances. We are fit and not perfect. We find each other attractive, does that help? Yeah, didn't think so.

Realistically, people seem to find us to be above average in body types/fitness and about average (among people of our bodytypes) in face. Our personalities are adventurous, but well grounded and honest.

We are relaxed with our sexuality, and very sex positive without being pushy. I find that she is the friendliest woman in the room in many circumstances. She is also very attractive in a girl next door plus fitness lover sort of way. She is petite with a sexy ass. She has a submissive sexual dynamic and tends to appeal to people who can comfortably tell her what they like. Men who take their time enforcing adn opening her submissiveness are often her favorites. He appeals to women who like lean men with strong legs, slightly defined abs and arms, a wildness born of well explored inner passions, and a slow and intense, aggressive if desired, sexuality. He tends to be good at speaking his mind, but is wise enough not to be rude or pushy - unless it is turning the woman he is with on for him to do so. He's got range ladies, and he likes - no, he loves - to make you dripping wet and yearning to fuck. He's patient and kind, kind enough to fuck you well in any way you need it. Soft and sensual? Hard and deep? A smooth, insightful combination of the two? With pleasure.

Ok, about me (him) - (in the third person, so the manly men who are homophobic can read it without feeling too personally involved with me and how incredibly huge my pen is):

He's about 6' tall and lean with slightly muscular legs from many years of hiking and skating (yeah in rollerskates - so grab some funky music and shake your ass until you fall down!) His hair is just above the shoulder and at the moment he has a very short and well groomed beard. She likes the scruffy face look. Facial hair on him comes and goes with the breeze and he is not overly attached to any particular facial hairstyle.

The social side to him: Courteous and friendly, Tend to be attentive when first meeting people. He is a story teller. He can sometimes get nervous in vanilla and very public social settings when meeting lifestyle people. Who he is at the bar is not the same as in a private space and certainly not similar at all to who he is in the bedroom. This is especially true if meeting locally. He is a passionate person and listens for cues about what things others are interested in.

He prefers a sex focused dialogue or other substantive conversations moreso than the unwinding and mundane small talk. If you don't have a passion for anything, we are not going to hit it off conversationally. Sex might still be fun - which is fine with us on occasion. People who just sort of skim through life without deeply loving something, ANYTHING, just aren't interesting to me. I am totally comfortable with you being deeply passionate about the exact opposite things that I am. I just don't have a lot of interest sexual interest in passionless people. I don't care if it is fashion, your work, motorcycles, other people who have passion, politics, sex, whatever makes you tick. I have a fairly low bullshit tolerance - meaning, people who talk a lot about things they really don't know anything about turn him off.

If in doubt - let's talk about sex and past adventures or ideas/fantasies about future experiences.

I connect really well with women who are interested in sex as a passionate adventure. I am a creative thinker and love solving puzzles/problems. I love discovering what makes a woman desire to fuck. Women are delicious puzzles. I am calm and steady in my personality. A gentleman, but assertive and capable of being a range of things in the bedroom. My wife likes assertive and a bit of kinkier or nastier types of exchange in the bedroom. I enjoy a lot of things, but as we venture into kinkier domains I tend to be the dominant.

People seem to like me, though I come across slowly at first as I try to understand the person/people I am meeting. If you want me to just take control of the sexual dynamics of our meeting and show you how I like things to be done, I'm happy to do that as well. Indicate that's what you like and I will certainly be happy to oblige your desire.

I am most at home as a sensually or aggressively dominant male. If that is your interest, let me know in advance. It is a different headspace when I am paying attention to you and listening to your desires if I am listening through a filter where I know in advance that dominance from me is something you would like to explore. I love to bring that to the table... Or the bed... and I am a gentlemen until I know the time and place you want me not to be.

- oops, I switched to first person. I guess all the manly men will just have to deal with it.

For her appearance... she is petite and likes to run and exercise. There are a lot of photos of her up so you probably get the idea. She's petite. She has a sexy ass. She has small natural breasts. She is tons of fun to go out with. She looks great in a skirt. Her attitude is real and welcoming. She wants you to feel comfortable.

She is modest to a fault, but what she might expressed or overtly displayed ego she makes up for in enthusiasm and skill. Relax her, then turn her on - that's the trick. Be honest, slow, passionate, NOT emotionally needy, somewhat assertive without being rude or over enthusiastic. Relax her and then turn her on - did I mention that? That is how you get the kind of experience where she's not just puppeting herself for your entertainment (which can be pretty fun as well...) Rather, deeply connect with her. Tease her until her body starts to beg you for more. Then tease her some more until her mouth begs you for more. Then fuck the shit out of her any way you like for a bit. Then reconnect and tease her some more. Variation is the key and keep checking in with her if you are a dominant type.

One important thing of note is that she is physically uncomfortable in a few sexual positions particularly when penetration first starts or is very deep (depending on her level of arousal and the shape/size of the man's penis) very deep penetration during doggie style (or face down) for example is not a good way to start pumping a big long cock or toy into her. Neither are lengthy energizer bunny poundings without changing positions. Mix it all up and be sure to give her some slow and deeply sensual sex being intermingled with rougher more aggressive sex. That's what rings her bell - usually. She is a woman though and reserves the right to change her mind at any time! For example, she loves anal sex - except when she doesn't. So feel free to guage her mood and ask her what she is into at the moment. She might enjoy letting you lube her up and just submit to being "used" without particularly being turned on by the sex as much as the submission. However, if you take time to draw her in and make her need it, not just make her beg for it... She will make your night truly memorable.

And now a Public Service Announcement on behalf of Mrs AAALIKEXXX.

Regarding meeting someone without my husband present. If we agree to do that, note that the energy I enjoy from this sort of encounter is in being used intensely as a fucktoy. D/s roleplay and power exchange is top of my list of things to do in that scenario. In other scenarios (mfmf threesomes... Etc... my range is far broader. Please contact my husband if you are a mature dominant (man, woman, or couple) interested in negotiating our "terms of use". I prefer to have him negotiate all the details and simply inform me that I will be arriving somewhere at a date and time where I will be used in whatever ways have been negotiated. I participate in the process with him, but prefer that the contact with you be walked into as close to blind as possible. It makes it easier for me to walk in the door ready to be used. That "blind contact" makes my submission to him through being used by you all the more delicious.... I look forward to serving you, errr, meeting you.... Preferably on my knees as the door shuts behind me.

end PSA

Couples, we want to like the way you interact with your own spouse. The way you continue to make each other smile is really important to us enjoying your company.

Big ego folks who have to keep reminding everyone how cool they are don't excite us. In fact, the more you think you are awesome, the less we will think you are. She's not into insincere flattery. If you know her and compliment her, it is one thing. Hollow flattery is never a wise move.

She's bisexual, but not bi-furious. She has had some fun bi-sex and occasionally looks desirously forward to it, depending on the other woman. Bi sex for bi sex's sake is not something she is after. We are relatively selective people and this applies to women also. If she is having sex with a woman it is important that everyone understand and respect that it will only be done for her/their pleasure not as a result of pressure from the guys. Well, unless it is part of a BDSM scene (where she might happily be made to do any manner things). She does what she does, and its mostly about the guys and/or group sexual energy unless she finds a woman who she is really turned on by. She is most likely to need male energy to keep her going. Her most positive bisexual experiences thus far have been as part of group sex. She really likes group energy throughout, and particulary finds it turns her on when having sex with another woman. For example when going down on another woman her favorite experience has been when that woman's husband and her did it simultaneously - kissing each other and the other woman's pussy simultaneously, etc. Group sexual energy gets big points with her.


Personalities... together we have a lot of fun. We love to go out, but our chariot often turns into a pumpkin around midnight - 1am! We prefer to have fun during the day and evening and sleep at night. We still do party late on occasions when we are on vacation, but that is certainly the exception. Now we are not likely to end a good time just to go to sleep, but it has happened. So take the play in the daytime idea to heart! Further, remember that we VERY rarely can get a late night babysitter at home.

We are happy to share our STD tests. We have full panels done and are only positive for HSV1 antibodies (cold sores), and haven't had any in decades. Of course would never play with one. We function under the assumption that we are likely to be HPV positive (as are you) given the statistical reality and lack of ability to reliably test for it in women and the complete lack of ability to test for it in men.


Important note: the Mr. here does pretty much all the profile perving... er, I mean, photo drooling, that is to say, I do all of the wishlisting, er damnit-all.... I do the emailing and site surfing! There that's what I was trying to say! - if you are sending or receiving an email it is him who is (at least initially) reading or writing it. She rarely reads email unless we are in a relatively immediate sense considering going to meet someone. She likes to give her approval or veto, but leaves me to figure the details out. She is helpful in identifying which profiles she does and doesn't like among those I specifically point out to her. She is much more of an in-person sort of person.

No person or entity of any kind has permission to reproduce the content of our profile or other content (including any data associated to our presence on or use of the Lifestyle Lounge website) including photos, descriptions of our appearance, height, weight, hair color, profile language, personal and/or sexual interests, blogs, forum posts, or any other data ,written or otherwise, without our advance permission.
  Describe what you are looking for: 
  Short answer? We like down to earth and attractive people who are down to fuck without a lot of pretense or uncertainty. Sexual self confidence is important to us. We don't take time to meet people when we are not in the mood to have a real fun time. So, if you aren't often compelled to fuck on the first date, we may come across as too sexual for your taste. We are going out to meet you, and the two of us are going someplace to fuck - with or without you - before the night is through.

We like men who are respectful of Mr AAA (who is not a cuckold) while also being completely capable of fucking the shit out of Mrs AAA - multiple men at once may be a bonus.

We like women who are bisexual or very comfortable discussing the boundaries of their bisexuality. He prefers petite sexually adventuresome types as he has a relatively kinky and dominant personality when it comes to sex. If she has a dirty submissive side that is a bonus, but certainly not a requirement. He likes to open a woman's sexuality slowly up like a flower and keep opening her until she has become sexually exhausted. She likes women who are confident and taller than her, but her interest in the f/f is completely secondary.

Long version:

Regarding emails - well, we reply to some unless we are interested in meeting, and even then it may just be with a wishlisting. We actually use the tools of the website to help us keep track of people we have an interest in. I know that is a radical idea to some, but hey, we like the wishlist feature - especially for people who live quite far out of town.

I am diligent about noting your interest in case we head wherever you live or happen to be attending a party. Don't be discouraged if we don't respond right away. However, unless you are visiting or planning on attending an event we are signed up for, there's not a lot of reason to exchange emails. Put us on your wishlist and make a witty photo comment, etc. We will make note of your interest and if we are interested we will eventually wishlist back, etc. That way if we happen to be crossing paths in the future we will remember to get in touch.

Sometimes we feel inordinately compelled to write emails to people who live far away ourselves. We understand. We certainly hope those who feel interested in contacting us from a great distance will do so. I promise, even if we don't take time to discuss your email and reply, we do take appreciative note of your interest for future reference in case it ever becomes possible to meet.

What are we looking for? (Still working out the priority order on this damn list. Really)

:-) < - and yes that is a colon/hyphen/parenthesis smiley face -
deal with it.

Fun cities
Long drives in the countryside
Emotionally mature and assertive men
Dirty Sex
Petite adventurous women
Beautiful waterfalls
Vividly comingled orgasms
the list goes on and on - like technicolor dreams in a black and white world... Like yogurt with grapenuts mixed in... Like wine at the hairdressers... Like a world where people don't say like... or use dots all the time.... Oh, and smilers. I did mention smilers, didn't I? Good because people who can't relax might get a good solid smack on the ass. If you like that sort of thing, we can probably make it work. If not I guess that'd be the door smacking your stuffy ass as you walk out of it! Just kidding, I'd never slam my door on your ass. Do you know how long it took me to get that damn thing to quit squeaking? Seriously, you people take things far too literally!

What? Oh, yeah. I am writing our profile. Well, pardon my tangent... You will find a great many herein. If you don't like tangents, well, then I'd skip to the next profile.

For those who stayed there will be exceptionally titillating pleasures (no not Turkish Delight) awaiting you!

What are we looking for...
One thing is people for whom sex is but one exciting adventure among other exciting adventures in their lives. But also, people who are doing this because it is something fun they are sharing - not because there is something they are missing or unable to get at home.

People who can openly talk about what sorts of sexual activities are both fun and uncomfortable for them, whether it be physical or emotional discomfort. We are explorers and like people to be able to just say, "This sort of thing generally isn't something we want to do" or " I am open to a variety of positions but be careful in this one because some angles tend to be uncomfortable" etc. People who will listen to our interests and read our profile and still be excited about meeting. A bonus would be people who have a willingness to play at the edge of boundaries. People who love to fuck intensely and to become lost in their wildness. People who seek the high only obscenely powerful sexual chemistry can create. People who enjoy not only a full swap, but an open and energetic sharing only possible beyond the door of a passionate kiss.

People who wouldn't be offended to hear my wife say something like this to the other woman, "Why don't we suck our husbands' cocks and see where this is headed?" or better still... People who would be excited to ask us what sort of toys we brought and enthusiastically share their own while clothes begin to join already lost inhibitions in the discarded pile of forgotten egos. Or better still... make eye contact and then slowly engage us in a passionate kiss.

People who are mostly not looking for "the girlfriend experience" or "the boyfriend experience" from us and who simply enjoy sex without it having to be tied up in separate room primary relationship emotionality.

That being said, we are very much into deeply passionate and emotionally charged sex. Just don't confuse it with primary relationship desires. We make love when we fuck. Just not quite the same as we do with each other. We find "love" during sex is always exchanged. Love is in our passion. Love is in our breath. Love is in my hard cock and her sweet dripping pussy. Love is the energy behind your eyes that compels you to gaze into us and crave more... Deep hard passionate connection... More explosive uncontrolled lust... More delicious teasing... More tightly squeezed erection... More limitlessly explored sensual abandon. Love is inseparable from the intensity of our fucking. That doesn't mean we want to keep you instead of our spouse. And yes, sometimes when we witness each other in the throes of such passions we feel a desire to reconnect if the connection we are making with someone else is not quite as strong for a while. That is one reason we like people open to group (yes threesomes and foursomes are groups when engaged as such) sex. It makes it easy for us to connect the most intense sparks to everyone else. Let yourself find the hard cock, mouth, hand, pussy, or ass that NEEDS you. It is there, just listen to the energy and engage it. Please always feel welcome to make yourself part of the group energy - you are wanted there.

We do consider the possibility of pairing off or doing separate rooms or whatever else you probably like. We have excellent range and play very well within other people's comfort zones. We just wanted to be sure you know what we are "looking for" even though we are quite happy when we find many other things. What gets you off? How do you like to fuck? Odds are we are open to it within the boundary of hetero males and hetero through lesbian females. We love the adventure. Tell us how you want to be engaged and let's have a great time making it happen! We enjoy making people's good time a reality.

Regarding sex with other people....
We are looking for people who like us enough to enjoy having sex with us...? Seems awfully simple, eh? (I tossed that "eh" in for all our Canadian members... how's the Moose pie and Labatts, eh?) Seriously though, we like Canadians, especially the ones who still think we are interesting after I made that joke. (Oh, and no, Canadian women don't taste like maple syrup. The good ones all taste like butterscotch!) Ok, OK, ok... I am guilty I admit it... I have family in BC, so cut me some slack.

Ideally we like people who are relaxed and enjoy playing with people from out of town, well maybe also if you are visiting our town FROM out of town. We play far more often on vacation than we do in our home area. Besides, my wife won't wear the cheap hooker clothes I buy her around here... so going out of town is always a better time... if you like cheap hooker clothes. Well, she doesn't always wear them. Sometimes they are on the floor.... or in my pocket... but I digress. She likes to go to classy dinners more than she likes wearing slutty clothes though. Oh, and dancing, she likes hip-hop mostly - perfect for wearing slutty clothes!

We like men and women who are physically fit. People who spend time taking care of their bodies tend to be more attractive to us than people who don't. We like down to earth people. Find that happy medium.

We are into going and doing fun things outdoors. One of the best times we have had with another couple for whom we were heavily lusting after was hiking in Zion National Park! Gotta love slut canyons... er slot canyons... right - the sluts are in Vegas, the wait, no the slots are in Vegas - oh nevermind.

We have no aversion to single men, though we don't need you to email us unless you are Real Sealed and coming to our town with a specified date and are curious about meeting for drinks (aka interested in boning my wife, why do we say "interested in meeting for drinks" instead of "interested in boning us" ... I suppose the word boning is a bit early 90's.... maybe that is it. Drinks sounds more elegant, and less suggestive of slutty behavior.... Is it an aversion to slutty behavior? Maybe it is an aversion to coming across to forward. I bet that is it. Tell you what, we will keep talking in code and say "meet for drinks" but we really mean, "meet to see if we want to go fuck in the car" OK with you? WAIT a minute! I know, it is about syllables. Too many syllables in "to see if we want to go fuck in the car"... drinks... drinks... maybe it is an acronym?!

Damn I seem to have left off the closing parenthesis in that last paragraph. Well, here ya go... )

meet for


or maybe


Basically, we find that the pre-meeting as pre-meating tends to have a lot to do with talking about what the do's and don't are. What the will's and won't are. And whether through the delivery of that there continues to be, or grows to be, a sexual interest. We are mostly easy in that department.

Awesome, we are all on board, let's meet for drinks! Seriously though, you don't have to want to go fuck in the car, we can date a few times if you want to. Sometimes the tease and the wait is plenty of fun, too. Timid men need not apply (unless he wants to be cuckolded while his spouse has sex with us... we've never done that, but would easily consider it.)

Note, that I am not interested in being in a cuckold or sub-role while another male is Dom to my wife. If you have structure your energy exchange where you are THE Alpha male, you might want to take a minute and realize that she's my submissive that I am possibly sharing with you. If that is an issue to your ego, feel free to move right along. By default any other partners have to accept being in a beta position to our primary relationship - this is just our dynamic. If you can't handle the pressure of that reality being the basis of the experience you will need to look elsewhere. We love men who are dominant and top for her. Know the difference or ASK us.

Our favorite experience so far is group sexual energy with three, or four, or more participants. Pairing off for sex is just not as fun for us as all of us playing in a group. She enjoys sharing a woman's pussy with other people, for example. Another favorite for us is when the two women are 69ing and their husbands are having sex with the other's wives. When the men take turns fucking each of the women, etc... That list goes on and on, but thus far in our experience that sort of more than separetely paired off type of sex has been the most spectacular for us. She likes her mouth fucked back and forth from someone else's pussy. Stuff like that you just can't do if you are in the same space but playing just in pairs.

One more thing, we are open to all swap levels. Our preference is full swap, partly because there is less mental energy burned on following rules if there are less rules to begin with. Tell you what I won't try and run off with your wife, you don't try and run off with mine? Awesome. Mostly though we are into this because we both want to fuck everyone in the room (minus MM) That is ultimately what we are primarily interested in doing, even if we don't get to use our boyparts and girlparts to facilitate the "sex acts" of full swap. Oh, and I don't mind letting you fuck her while I watch, but only if I can video tape it. Just watching is sort of boring.

Soft swappers, I want to be clear, if you have rules, be very clear about what they are, I know this is harder from newer couples sometimes, but it makes all the difference. If you don't want the energy or chemistry of the situation to involve interpersonal sex acts that effect the same thing as penetration, just without the penetration, then we really ought to know that ahead of time.

Bi males, our male is straight. We have no aversion to playing with bi-males so long as our lack of interest in bi-male sex is something that is not an issue. Submissive bi-males, we have no aversion to you sucking cum out of a woman's pussy or for a woman to fuck you in the ass (or mouth) with a strap-on. I am confortable ordering a sub bi-male around as he is used and abused, but I am not interested in having my cock sucked or fucking his ass. I could top a bi-male sub while he watches me use his wife within those boundaries. However, that is where our interest ends.

Dominant females. If you are interested in co-topping my wife or my wife and your cuckold husband, we are perfectly ok with that. He isn't interested in subbing to a domme, however. A dominant female would basically be treated similarly to a dominant male. We would all have rather a good time, I believe, fucking my sub-wife together.

Too often, some male partners seem to not be able to get erections, or keep them. Drinking often makes this issue worse. Guys, we are not likely to want to go "back to the room" with you if you have been drinking a lot.

She has an intense sexuality, but it is a SUBMMISSIVE sexuality. If you can't bring some level of dominant energy and get off on that, she may not be a good match for you. So even though we have had some excellent times, we have also had a percentage of frustrating experiences as well. She is a pleaser and directly associates her good time to how well she stimulates and arouses her partners. Regardless of how I (and they) try to explain that there is a lot of fun possible She takes it personally as a failure. So she loses enthusiasm when taking up our free time meeting people who can't get hard. Funny enough, when the guys can stay hard, sometimes they are so unintuitive that they can't really turn her on anyway. She is a very fun, but complex puzzle. She says, why go have mediocre or bad sex with someone else when her husband is more fun? That's hard for me to debate!

In a separate room experience she ideally wants an aggressive partner who can stay hard without his cock doing ALL the thinking for him - just MOST of the thinking for him. She needs a man who reads her, and who gives her a sensual and erotic experience. Someone who isn't needy or clingy. You know, an emotionally mature, dominant male with the wisdom to know when to be a prince and when to treat her like a whore and give her only slightly more than she wants. Then pull back to being a prince long enough to check in with her and be sure she is indeed having as much fun as possible before letting her loose as a whore again.

To really turn her on, some of her words of enthusiasm and excitement have to be ignored. Her body is what must be listened to. Not just watched, but FELT. She might be enjoying roleplaying that she loves something, but not actually be turned on by it. She loves to play submissive to make a man feel comfortable being aggressive. She likes aggressive, but she has to be tantalized and teased until the truth comes out. The truth of how she really desires sex at that moment. Then if she is teased with what she wants she can be fucked some more. Any way a man wants to, any way he is assertive enough to make happen. Then she has to be checked in on A good connection made and teased and tantalized until the truth comes out again. Make her body show its hunger by denying her what you want to give her and denying her the intense contact she will ultimately cum because of. But not too much too soon. She has to be teased and fucked and teased and fucked until the rhythm of it is beyond her ability to suppress a desire for. She wants to be teased and fucked, over and over, until she really has to have it. Then she will give it all up. Not just verbally, not just physically, but tease her there from deep beyond walls most men are too unintuitive or impatient to see.

An alternative is for experienced Tops to ask me if you can use her for a couple hours. (Don't be offended if the answer is no, we might still want to play as a group.). She might not get intensely turned on, but she loves the roleplaying and getting used at my discretion turns her on when she gets back home to me. She's a hot puzzle though. Lots of fun and complex. So you get your good time while she is serving your interests, and then she gets off the most by coming home and relaying to me what she did.

In a non-BDSM setting, our dynamics are very different than this. Don't confuse the two! Group sex is our favorite, when the group connects well. The BDSM stuff is mostly a fun side dynamic we usually play with by ourselves or with specifically interested and experienced partners.

What the hell, now some of you reading this far only did that because of the mysterious promises and veiled references to exceptionally titillating pleasures... Well, if you read this far I hope you enjoyed it. If so, shoot us an email. If you are fit and an smiling a lot through your profile and pics... We'll probably wriye you back at some level or another. Cheers!

We really are down to earth people. All this detail makes us sound terribly intimidating to new couples. We really are very nice, and while we have a wide range of experience, we don't really do this stuff very often at all. After a decade though, you learn a lot about yourselves, and how your kinks fit together with others.

Bonus quotes of the moment:
"Disbelief in magic can force a poor soul into believing in government and business."
- Tom Robbins

"Talent hits a target no one else can hit; Genius hits a target no one else can see."
- Arthur Schopenhauer

"Once a government is committed to the principle of silencing the voice of opposition, it has only one way to go, and that is down the path of increasingly repressive measures, until it becomes a source of terror to all its citizens and creates a country where everyone lives in fear."
- Harry S Truman, August 8, 1950

"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society."
- Krishnamurti

"The marvel of all history is the patience with which men and women submit to burdens unnecessarily laid upon them by their governments."
- William H. Borah

"There is no greater importance in all the world like knowing you are right and that the wave of the world is wrong, yet the wave crashes upon you."
- Norman Mailer

"When I am abroad, I always make it a rule never to criticize or attack the government of my own country. I make up for lost time when I come home."
- Sir Winston Churchill

"There is nothing worse than aggressive stupidity."
- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

"If you would be a real seeker after truth, it is necessary that at least once in your life you doubt, as far as possible, all things."
- Rene Descartes

"In science, 'fact' can only mean 'confirmed to such a degree that it would be perverse to withhold provisional assent.' I suppose that apples might start to rise tomorrow, but the possibility does not merit equal time in physics classrooms."
- Stephen Jay Gould

"Tradition is what you resort to when you don't have the time or the money to do it right."
- Kurt Herbert Alder

"I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma, a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth."
- Umberto Eco

"Reality is nothing but a collective hunch."
- Jane Wagner

"I spent a lot of money on booze, birds and fast cars. The rest I just squandered."
- George Best

"Personally I'm always ready to learn, although I do not always like being taught."
- Sir Winston Churchill

"Charm is the quality in others that makes us more satisfied with ourselves."
- Henri-Frdric Amiel

"In theory, there is no difference between theory and practice; In practice, there is."
- Chuck Reid

"Computer games don't affect kids, I mean if Pac Man affected us as kids, we'd all be running around in darkened rooms, munching pills and listening to repetitive music."
- Marcus Brigstocke

"Basic research is what I am doing when I don't know what I am doing."
- Wernher von Braun

"Any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic."
- Arthur C. Clarke

"It is forbidden to kill; therefore all murderers are punished unless they kill in large numbers and to the sound of trumpets."
- Voltaire

"Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one."
- Albert Einstein

"I think computer viruses should count as life. I think it says something about human nature that the only form of life we have created so far is purely destructive. We've created life in our own image."
- Stephen Hawking

"There are 10^11 stars in the galaxy. That used to be a huge number. But it's only a hundred billion. It's less than the national deficit! We used to call them astronomical numbers. Now we should call them economical numbers."
- Richard Feynman

"The greatest mystery is not that we have been flung at random between the profusion of matter and of the stars, but that within this prison we can draw from ourselves images powerful enough to deny our nothingness."
- Andre Malraux

"That is the saving grace of humor, if you fail no one is laughing at you."
- A. Whitney Brown

"Because we don't think about future generations, they will never forget us."
- Henrik Tikkanen

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
- Dr. Seuss

"The highest activity a human being can attain is learning for understanding, because to understand is to be free."
-Baruch Spinoza

"To see life as a poem and yourself participat​ing in that poem is what the myth does for you."
- Joseph Campbell

"Neither by word nor look have I expressed any other feeling than sympathy with those who hope to live again for those who bend above their dead and dream of life to come. But I have denounced the selfishness and heartlessness of those who expect for themselves an eternity of joy, and for the rest of mankind predict, without a tear, a world of endless pain. Nothing can be more contemptible than such a hope a hope that can give satisfaction only to the hyenas of the human race."
- Robert Ingersoll

"...all the magic I have known, I've had to make myself."
-Shel Silverstein

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