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Swinging 101: Lifestyle Tips for Couples in
By Lifestyle Expert Robyn Scott
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couples dating and swing club information, please join
www.lifestylelounge.com
Matchmaking for swingers has evolved greatly in the past
decade. Prior to the online boom, many swingers resorted to placing ads in
magazines. Not only was this costly and time-consuming, but turned out to be
quite the arduous task. Wait-time and written correspondence was a hindrance to
enjoying the lifestyle. Now, we have the option to set up profiles online with
relative ease and efficiency. For a reasonable cost and only an initial
investment of effort, one can set up an online bio on a lifestyle site with
ease. There are many swingers’ sites in the vast cyber world, but do your
research!
Choose quality over quantity.
The largest matchmaking site may not always be the most
qualitative. The best luck may stem from choosing a midsize matchmaking site
with better features. Quantity doesn’t always equal quality. Think about the
times you have surfed the internet for adult videos, adult chat and adult
camming. The alternative “Swingers” sites for matchmaking that are usually
spamming these adult sites are usually the ones to avoid. Experience has
dictated that many of the giant lifestyle sites have gotten that way from mass
advertising, thus attracting anyone and everyone who is willing to pay the site
fees. Joining a mass-marketed alternative matchmaking site or a generic date
club for swingers will only cause you mass aggravation.
Oral is always better.
The best sites are usually the ones that do a bit less
advertising, and are more driven my word of mouth. After all, an oral
testimonial is more impressive than any other (no pun intended). Choose an
internet site that is endorsed by lifestyle experts and quality couples. Most
internet sites offer free trial periods, during which you can scope out the
features, and most importantly, the membership base. If you are completely new
to the lifestyle, don’t hop onto the first site you find on a search engine and
pledge your undying loyalty. One of the best methods for finding quality
referrals is by visiting your local swing club. Ask around and get
recommendations. The best referrals come from the experienced swingers- those
who have tested out many sites and have a ‘favorite’s list’.
Feel it.
Shop around. Another good test of customer care is to
contact the site administrator with a question or concern that requires personal
feedback. “Corporate” swingers’ sites will often deliver a canned response to
genuine concerns. Many times there will be a long delay to your question or no
answer at all. This is a warning sign. Since discretion is also a foremost
concern of many swingers, you will also want to test out the site for privacy
options. These include being able to block trial members from accessing one’s
private photos, blocked access to chat and/or forums from trial members, and
options for private and/or password protected photo albums. A good website
cares about its members’ security.
Like any good business, customer service should be the
priority. After all, you trust your privacy and positive online expectations to
be just that: private and positive.
Carpe Do’em (Seize the Swinger)
Robyn Scott
For more information on
couples dating and swing club information, please join
www.lifestylelounge.com
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