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Single Male Swinging Tips: How To Be A Successful Solo Lifestyler By Swinging Expert Robyn Scott

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There is a reason for the phrase single gentleman.  Anyone can be a single male.  It takes the extraordinary male to be a gentleman.  In a world sought after by so many single males, one must aspire to be a gentleman to beat the odds.  Simply put, men are a dime a dozen.  Gentlemen are priceless, and the skills that accompany this type of atypical male are ones that will win over many a couple seeking you out. 

1) Make a Good Impression Before the First E-mail is Even Sent.

Single men who understand swinging know that their profile should be comprehensive, humble and proofread.  Yes, that’s right guys.  In addition to great pictures that show more than just your crotch, your profile should convey that you care enough to convey more than just your desire for bedroom fun.  It should be articulate, insightful and checked over for grammar and spelling mistakes.  This may seem odd, but you certainly know the rule of first impressions.  If you place obvious value on preparing an attractive profile, couples will infer that these high standards transfer into other arenas as well.

2) Be More than Just a Man.  Be a Gentleman.

First and foremost, there is a reason for the phrase single gentleman.  Anyone can be a single male.  It takes the extraordinary male to be a gentleman.  In a world sought after by so many single males, one must aspire to be a gentleman to beat the odds.  Simply put, men are a dime a dozen.  Gentlemen are priceless, and the skills that accompany this type of atypical male are ones that will win over many a couple seeking you out.  Since the supply of single men far outweighs the actual demand, it is necessary to go the extra mile when attracting an interested couple or single lady.  Remember those manners your mother taught you?  Use them. 

3) Be One of the Rare Gentlemen Who ‘Gets It’.

Since the supply of single men far outweighs the actual demand, it is necessary to go the extra mile when attracting an interested couple or single lady.

There are certain unofficial rules of etiquette and conduct for single males both on websites and out on ‘dates’.  The ones that understand and practice the unspoken etiquette have a far better chance of achieving what they desire.  There are many men who seem never to ‘get it’, therefore, they don’t ‘get any’.  Singles should remember that when dealing with a couple, that there are TWO people that comprise a couple.  When you begin your communications with couples, lead by addressing your e-mail to the man.  Many men make the mistake of only acknowledging the female, thereby showing instant disrespect. Develop a friendly rapport with the male, and then you will make him more comfortable with the idea of sharing his partner with you. If you look like a Calvin Klein model, you will still get nowhere without the proper respect. 

4) Drop Your Pre-Conceived Notions

Men don’t have to look like models in order to break into the couples’ scene.   The only ‘models’ that will truly get them far are model manners and etiquette.

The best way to proceed to is be honest, respectful and unassuming.  If you get onto a site and expect nothing but threesomes every weekend, you’ll find yourself sorely disappointed.  Your actions can be the determining factor for your success.  The best way to approach the lifestyle is by not expecting anything at all.  Some of the most popular men on swingers’ sites are merely there participating in the forums or chat. Get involved in these things and remember to mind your manners.  Singles are noticed via personality, wit and no-pressure attitudes.  It is usually these kinds of people that are kept ‘busy’ more than anyone else, because of their approach and general attitude.  If you become popular, it won’t be necessary for you to contact couples.  They will undoubtedly seek you out and contact you.

5) Be Realistic.

 It is not a matter of a few days until you can achieve your goal.  The key for everyone, including couples, is to have patience.  For single males, earning the trust of other members in the lifestyle community can take months.  If you are patient, this will pay off for you.  It is well worth the wait.  Just as word spreads quickly if you act like a pig, word will also spread like wildfire if you are the type of gentlemen couples seek.  It all comes down to a matter of class versus crass.  Our lifestyle is largely based on having friends with ‘benefits’.  Be a friend, and the rest will come.

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