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   The Vanilla pick up  

5/4/2011 23:21
Posted By:  - CLAREMONT, CA  
Date Posted: 5/4/2011 23:21
   So the wife and I are seriously considering the vanilla bar pick up of  a single male.  Yes a SM and not a women or couple.  Many will say why go with vanilla bar pick up when there are so many SM on the site in need of some attention.  Well, it is just the idea and excitement that an otherwise typical night out may bring.  
The question is how does a couple go about picking up an SM at a bar?  In our thinking we have to be very careful not to make a spectacle as well as make sure that the SM does not think he can do whatever he feels like doing.  

Sure the wife could go to a bar and pick up a single guy at just about any time.  But with hubby there what is the best play?  He will be in attendance if it continues to the bedroom so the SM has to know this is about all 3 and not just the wife and him.  So we are all on the same page, hubby is straight, looking to either watch or possibly join in a very small part .  

If there are other's that have experience this we would love to hear your thoughts and experiences.

Happy hunting!

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