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   If you are or ever were soft swap...  

12/30/2013 08:35
Posted By:  - SALT LAKE CITY, UT  
Date Posted: 12/30/2013 08:35
   ...what was your reasoning or rationale for not just diving into swinging head first? Seems there are a number of people who see soft swappers as some kind of lesser swinging animal and often complain and/or try to belittle some couple's choice to, at least at first, draw any limits. I'd like to know what your thought processes were/are to maybe help those who come from different background and life experiences understand a little better why someone might choose soft swap at least initially.

For us it was because we were just starting to break free from our entire lives, up to that point, of being heavily indoctrinated by very strict religious families. It really took a number of years for us, and Ms. Evil especially, to wrap her head around the idea of not only breaking her marriage vows but also the "laws" of God. Now, looking back, of course it seems quite silly but it was a huge paradigm shift for two little (virgins on our wedding night) Mormon kids who were for the first time out in the world on their own and finally making their own decisions. Ultimately it not only led us from the church but from religion entirely. Please forgive any gross spelling/grammar errors or more importantly lapses in logic. It's early and I haven't had my coffee yet. LOL

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