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   Couples, if you play with single guys...  

6/18/2014 10:00
Posted By:  - SALT LAKE CITY, UT  
Date Posted: 6/18/2014 10:00
   ...who sets the tone/agenda? Are you comfortable letting the single male take any kind of control in the situation or do you feel that all control belongs to the woman and/or her partner? We were talking about it a little bit and realized that one of the biggest problems we've had with a some single guys over the years was their desire or even insistence that they more or less be in charge in the bedroom.  With some it was definitely their personality as they seemed to consider themselves more or less an alpha male and pretty much considered me some sort of cuckold since I was actually willing to let another man fuck my wife. Others weren't quite as assertive but once play started became much more so to the point where it quickly became an issue. Many (most?) single male profiles state they are "respectful" and some truly are but we've also encountered many that stated that and once play started were anything but. Thoughts? Do you ever let the single guy be in charge? If so, under what circumstances? Or is an assertive single male a huge turn off and a deal breaker?

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