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   Why are you in the Forums? The Serious Thread...  

7/24/2012 12:38
Posted By:  - MESA, AZ  
Date Posted: 7/24/2012 12:38
   A couple of days ago a thread was started which called into question (albeit a bit tongue in cheek) as to why aren't some in the forums more serious. As a response, I pledged that I would be serious in my postings for the next 30 days. But it begged a larger question, as to why people are here in the forums in the first place.

For me, it's simply a diversion, a form of escape from the trials of the day to day. Life is often challenging, and even that life that doesn't immediately effect us is mentally challenging. In the past few weeks we've seen a trusted football coach create a charity, that he then used in part to groom and violate young boys, all the while being shielded by the very people who should have been protecting these children. We've seen a deranged individual open fire in a crowded movie theater, filled with men, women and children whose lives, and the lives of their families, will be forever altered. We've seen seemingly good people get diseases from which at present we have no known cure. The list is endless, and for many, deeply personal.

So yes, when I come here in the forums, I am invariably going to post things which sometimes are funny (to me at the time), sometimes are clever (to me at the time), and on rare occasions maybe even inciteful (to me at the time). I would certainly never delve into this approach if someone were trying to get a serious answer to a compelling and serious question, such as a medical or family question.

My intent is also not to say hey, look at me, I want to get laid cause I'm funny or clever, because if it was, I am thus far a dismal failure. I could go down the route of serious inquiry about all things forum, but do we really need a statistical analysis of why FMF are the threesome of choice over MFM?

But as I stated, life is a challenge, and this is a venue where I can escape that for a few minutes and maybe share a few laughs, or even inside jokes with people who share a similar world view. If that makes me annoying or an "asshat", as someone referred to another on here very recently, then so be it.

Why are you here?

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