After you decided that you would give this thing called the Lifestyle or swinging a try, how long did it take you to actually seal your first deal? I have noticed in reading the forums that it seems like the amount of time people take to get to their first hook up tends to vary widely.
For us, after we decided to try this thing, we hopped in in a hurry. Let me start by saying we had no idea what we were doing or how it worked at an on premise club. We did a little homework, found Twist in San Francisco and flew up there for the weekend. We got to our hotel in the early afternoon and we were sooooooooo excited, but we were determined not to touch each other. It was a veeeerrrrryyyy long 7-8 hours until Twist opened. We got there about 10:30 at night, walked in and there was like maybe five couples there, none of them we were interested in. We sat down and within 5 minutes a couple walked in that we both thought was good looking. They came over and started talking to us. We told them it was the first time, that we had ever done something like this before, that we were really excited and did they want to go up to the play room with us. All of this within 5 minutes of meeting. They looked at each other, shrugged, and said, "let's go."
Told ya we had no idea what we were doing but we did know what we wanted to do.
Been having a blast ever since.