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   Is it possible...  

11/2/2012 08:45
Posted By:  - NORTHRIDGE, CA  
Date Posted: 11/2/2012 08:45
   for people to accept that while some people may come across as complaining about peoples choices, that the reality is they are venting about how others peoples choices have an impact on them?

Example...I get irritated when I go to a party or event and I leave feeling unhappy because I feel like I had just wasted my night at a club for lesbians.

I get irritated by all* the guys at the event that are off limits because they are just here for their woman to get her girl/girl needs met.  

Can it be understood that I don't really care what your choices are, they are yours and you are entitled to play as you wish...but that my frustration comes from my feelings of the impact of peoples choices have on my desires?

Ultimately I do care what choices you make, because they do have an impact on my choices.  The problem is that people seem to think that this means I am bitching about the choices you make and I want you to change for me. Not true in the least. People get frustrated in all settings of life due to other peoples choices. 

I can only hope that I have expressed myself clearly. I will state it one more time as simple as I can.

Your choices do have an impact on my opportunities. Do you need to change? NO! Should you and I accept that this will frustrate people that have different desires?  I think yes. 

The question is can you respect people for their frustrations as much as people should be respected for their choices?


* I was trying to type "all" but hit the caps lock button instead of "a" and it changed my attempt to type "all" into LL.  This is a side note for those conspiracy lovers.

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