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   Under what circumstances would you (have you) changed plans?  

11/2/2012 10:10
Posted By:  - IRVINE, CA  
Date Posted: 11/2/2012 10:10
   So, another thread made me think of this topic.

Sometimes the Lifestyle can be a bit complicated in my opinion. We have only been in it for not quite two years but have had some interesting dilemmas. On three different occasions we have been at functions where we have met people and made either play dates or dinner dates with them for later in the evening. In the meantime, while waiting for the evening to arrive, we have met other people that we find interesting and who have made it clear that they would like to play - and play now. Normally, we have the opportunity to explain the situation, but not always and one time when we did the other couple thought we were crazy because we wouldn’t flake for a sure thing. They actually were rather pissed and no amount of explaining that we just don't change horses in the middle of the stream would placate them.

On another occasion we were getting ready to go to dinner with a couple at a takeover when another couple we had met called and invited us to their room for an immediate rendezvous. We had no idea if the dinner would end up with some delightful fun and we REALLY wanted to go to the rendezvous but told them that we just didn’t want to flake on the other couple even for a sure thing. We told them that we just don’t roll that way. They understood.

What experiences have you had like this? When it happens, do you always stick with the original plan? Are we crazy for turning down a sure thing with a couple we would like to play with for a "maybe" with someone else just because we made plans with them?


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