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   Eye Contact during play--too intimate for some?  

1/8/2013 01:07
Posted By:  - LOS ANGELES, CA  
Date Posted: 1/8/2013 01:07
   Almost a year into the lifestyle for me and I still keep coming across new things...

Recently I met a lovely, polite, gentleman in person.  Our conversation was very engaging and there was plenty of eye contact. We had a lot in common and there was attraction. 

Fast forward to the bedroom, and the guy avoids all eye contact during play.  I kept attempting to make eye contact, but he just kept looking away.  I asked him why he was avoiding eye contact and then I made a joke that he did not have to worry, I would not fall in love.  (We had previously discussed how he had often come across women that misunderstood his gentlemanly ways for love).  He responded saying that maybe he "did not want to fall in love".  I do think he was kidding, but nonetheless, the "no eye contact" was a total dealbreaker for me.  He asked to meet again, but I told him that I did not think we were a match.

So, my question is....do you make eye contact during play?  I think it is very important and adds to the intensity of playtime.  I also like to kiss and have more of a "boyfriend" type experience, but I am able to walk away afterwards with no issues. (I know that this is not always the case with women...men too for that matter).  This is the first time I have come across this and I wondered if it is more common than I think....


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