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   Advice to the single men  

2/11/2013 10:30
Posted By:  - HERMOSA BEACH, CA  
Date Posted: 2/11/2013 10:30
Single men of LL, I just wanted to offer you some quick advice -- stand out. 

A wonderful single female friend of ours just joined the site in the last week. She was over this weekend and showing us all of the mail she got in her first week on the site. No fewer than a dozen single men sent her a note. One, ONE, of them took the time to actually write her a note, telling her about himself and why they should meet up to see if there's a connection.

Every other one was something along the lines of: 

"I'm Joe. I think you're hot. We should get together for fun. Email me." (which is still better than my favorite: "Hey, I'm (XXX). Girlfriend gave me a hall pass. You into kink?") 

From one guy to another, put a little effort into it. You're trying to get a woman to be comfortable enough with you to be intimate with you. It's probably going to take more than 140 characters. If all the effort you can muster is to write a generic: 'I'm a guy, you should want me' email, you might just be better off hiring a pro. 

Just my .02


PS: That one single guy who sent her the full email? She is planning on writing him back today to set up drinks. See what a little effort can do? 

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