We are embarking on our first Takeover Cruise in April, the Brilliance of the Sea leaving out of San Juan.  This is our first Lifestyle Vacation of any sort for that matter.

We are wondering about the Theme nights, how much participation is there?  Do we need to shop?

What about play rooms? 

Is it ok to play in public locations on the boat (we assume no) or do you always need to go to your room (or someones elses room)?

What else should us rookies know?

We are super excited and can't wait, but we don't want to look like newbies, just party like rock stars!

Lastly, anyone want to take us under their wing and be our mentors, or is that just too dorky???

Thanks!
D&CJ

(We aren't really this weird, just curious)