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   Am I wrong?  

3/22/2013 08:58
Posted By:  - NORTH HILLS, CA  
Date Posted: 3/22/2013 08:58
   Since mid January I have been the primary caregiver for my 88 year old neighbor. She did finally pas peacefully yesterday, but this is not the point to my question.

Also in january I invited a "friend" that was going through a divorce and her two young children to come live with us as temporary shelter. When home i gladly took care of her kids, one of them being a type 1 diabetic. I had to learn to monitor his sugar and give him insulin shots as needed, which was at least twice daily. I did this with no hesitation and had thought of it as if I or any of my family ever needed a place like this during tough times, it would be available.

At the end of February or start of March, we bought a plane ticket for someone we had met in mexico on one of our trips, that was so depressed due to her then circumstances, we wanted to do what we could to give her some help to find a job here in the states and just let her get out of the horrible depressed state she was in.

My house had to be completely rearranged to make room for these people. I asked for it and my family was okay with the temporary changes to help some people in need.

At first it was okay. These two girls, not lifestyle, would help with doing dishes, cooking and watching my kids if i needed to run out for my neighbor.

Then all hell broke loose. My house turned into party central. I told the one that had her boyfriend over all the time that 9 pm was the cut off. No one in the house...except those living with us was allowed in past 9. This was mostly respected until the party moved out on the street and smoking, drinking, and who knows what else took place in the street in front of my house.

Prior to the guest from Mexico, I was paying a Lifestyle friend to help me move all of the neighbors house because I was selling it. I introduced the guest from Mexico to my LS friend who is married and they ended up hooking up. That I could care less about except for the fact that they were not too careful around my younger daughters and my ten year old asked my husband if our male friend was cheating on his wife with our house guest. Needless to say Bob was ready to kill them both. We explained that he was just taking her places since I was unable to because of taking care of my neighbor. I don't think she accepted that answer. She wants nothing to do with him, our friend, any more.

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