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   How to Successfully Move to Full Swap?  

12/2/2013 21:28
Posted By:  - SAN JOSE, CA  
Date Posted: 12/2/2013 21:28
   Hey Guys,

My husband and I have been in the Lifestyle for awhile now and we decided to move up to full swap a couple of months ago.  We have encountered an unexpected rough patch.

We have been to about 5 House Parties and events and while I regularly get invited to play a 1/2 dozen times per night, all my husband has gotten to date is a considerable sequence of no-thank-you's. We are both mature but fairly good looking and HWP. I think my husband is also very sexy.

I have chosen to play separately several times and it has turned out to be a pretty frustrating situation for my husband and somewhat uncomfortable for the both of us, with me off playing in another room and my husband sitting on the couch, sampling the vegetable dip.

I am looking for some specific advice here, beyond "Just keep at it" since my husbands ego is already pretty bruised and I am worried that if continue to play separately, with him not participating, it could start to damage our relationship. I am at my wits end trying to make the LS fun for both of us.

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