Home   New Mail!  Contacts  Who's Online  Friends  Search  Advice  Forum  Blogs  Groups  Mall  Chat  My Account  Clubs  Travel  Login  
  -1 member in chat62 in bOOty Call
Are you seeking Lakewood, California swingers personal ads?
Forum Category: General Lifestyle Discussion Topics
 Originator Date Posted 
   Should I Talk to my Friend About Making Out With His Wife?  

2/10/2014 20:25
Posted By:  - LAKEWOOD, CA  
Date Posted: 2/10/2014 20:25
   I am usually pretty skilled at getting through various types of social interactions, but this one has me stumped.  

We have a couple who are friends--they have been together for almost 20 years, and I have known them about 3 years and my wife since she met me.   I'll call them Ted and Alice.  

Ted and Alice are clearly not monogamous, but I would not say they are members of the "lifestyle".  But clearly, they are very open minded.  They once shared a girlfriend.  I've been to parties and seen Ted being very sexual with women besides Alice.  They have hinted at having gone to lifestyle parties.   I met them through one of my good friends, a retired adult film star.   Ted and Alice also have other friends in the adult industry.  

Okay--these are clearly not vanilla people.   

A few months back they had a party and Alice and I ended up alone in a room together for a few minutes, and the sexual tension was pretty heavy--but I had not talked to the Mrs. about Alice in this regard, so I didn't do anything.  After that, I told Mrs. Affuctionate about what had happened and she gave me the green light to make a move.  

This last Saturday we were all at a huge party/event in Hollywood with several other friends.   We were all being very affectionate with each other.  Lots of kissing and hugging and so forth--this is pretty normal with this group of friends.  

As things progressed, Alice and I started making out pretty heavily.  Mrs. Affucktionate joined in also for a bit, but she was in and out of the room.  I know Ted was around for awhile, but not sure how long and not sure what he saw.  Alice and I talked a bit about our mutual attraction.  And then I asked her, "Is this okay with Ted?"   She assured me that Ted totally understood and that it was not a problem.  

So, my question is whether I should double check with Ted?   I really like both these people a lot and I do not want to cause a problem with the friendship.  We are going to see them again this weekend.   

I am always in favor of open communication--but do I just out and out ask him, "hey, is it okay if Alice and I made out last weekend at the party?  Do you mind if we do it again?   Would you like to join us?"  

Any suggestions?  

Click here to read more of this topic...
Click here to read next topic >>

Return to Lakewood, California Swinger Personals
Lakewood, California Swinger Club List of swinger clubs
Lakewood, California The Swingers Message Board, find Swinger Info here
Lakewood, California Lifestyle Lounge Magazine, The Online Swingers Magazine