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   Which is worse - to be thought of as a cheater, or known as a swinger?  

5/28/2014 10:50
Posted By:  - LEAWOOD, KS  
Date Posted: 5/28/2014 10:50
   Some good friends of ours had this happen recently.  They play with a couple that they are good friends with in real-life. They have tons of vanilla friends in common. Well, apparently one night last month, two of the four got together (with their respective spouses' permissions), and somehow got "busted" by vanilla friends.  We didn't ask for details, so are not sure if they were cold-hard undeniably busted, or just kinda-busted, meaning the vanillas are pretty sure something fishy was going on.

So it got us wondering, assuming the vanilla friends KNOW that there was fucking involved, would it be better to let them think there was some kind of a cheating tryst or affair between the two, or would if be better for all four to come clean and out themselves as swingers?

We think we would have to go with the swinging angle, and do our best to explain it away as a one-time only, drunken, huge mistake thing. Then everyone thinks we are freaks, but not unfaithful, dishonest freaks. But man, we feel for them being in a tough spot.

Some night over drinks, we want to extract more details, and also find out if any of the vanillas ratted out the "dirty" halves to their respective "clean" halves.

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