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6/3/2014 12:18
Posted By:  - ELK GROVE VILLAG, IL  
 
Date Posted: 6/3/2014 12:18
   Hi All:

This is my first time posting any kind of topic....

But I find that when I go to events or anything swinging that there is always more than one person who after a brief conversation feels that they can grab my ass or rub my nibbles....

I am somewhat shy and yet very strong .... LOL....so sometimes when I deal with things I am either a doormat or a bitch.... But I am trying to find the middle ground in dealing with people who do this.... It is not just single guys but married ones as well....

As a single woman I do not have a buffer to keep men at bay so I need to learn how to handle this where I have boundaries and can be respected yet at the same time not get a reputation for being a cunt.....

I enjoy the individuals who can give me a hug without trying to cop a feel and who show me respect.... they do not do anything unless I make the first move..... which is how it should be..... These other people make me feel dirty and cheap and at times make me contemplate leaving the lifestyle.... It is about what I want ... not about what they want....

I am relatively new to this so a lot of the people that I meet know each other and have for years..... I also know that some people can be asses.... Ok.... done.... sometimes being alone is not easy and like I said I really have not built up a buffer in the lifestyle..... as far as having developed friendships so that there are people looking out for me.... So I am alone in this....

I appreciate any suggestions.... Thank you....



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