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   The line between anonymity and just plain lying  

6/27/2014 10:04
Posted By:  - LAS VEGAS, NV  
Date Posted: 6/27/2014 10:04
      For those who have play pals as well as good friends in the lifestyle.

  We understand play pals not sharing names of others they have slept with or their type of work,age etc as to keep anonymity.Then there are the ones who you consider friends?  
Maybe you slept with them ,maybe you didn't. Perhaps you did then stopped. For notation you know their personal lives,their place of work,whether the kids live a home or what school they attend.You talk with them more frequently or about more personal things then a play pal.You would have them as a friend if you didn't sleep with them .

In this case we still don't want or need to know your who your sex pals are or anything about them .We have a couple we have caught various times in the last six months telling us one thing and finding out another.One example is they turned us down for a event with a family excuse and later found they attended with another couple.At first we didn't understand why they didn't just tell us .We talked with them about it letting them know we are cool and no worries about us getting mad.The other couple had mentioned the anonymity thing as if it was just how it is in the lifestyle.

It became more frequent in the later months and I cant help but feel disrespected on the friendship level.It feels like they need to hide something but we don't know what or why..We don't deny we have other plans if not available and don't feel the need to hide anything about what we are doing.We just don't say names. They claim they are honest and would tell us if anything changes in the friendship ,but we continue to catch them . We don't look for things ,its usually a slip of the tongue or other simple observations that give away the alibi. We don't care that you had a date with another couple but don't tell us its a work thing!

At what point is this no longer anonymity and  just plain lying ,or is this how all lifestyle friendships are? Have any of you had a similar experience? How did you confront them about it if you otherwise valued the friendship?

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