I had a scary experience in the lifestyle and was hopeful to gain some insights from others on the situation.
A couple weeks ago we met a couple. The initial drinks went well and we ended up back at our place for a typical lifestyle get together; this couple had two kids at home and thus we used our place.
Fast forward now a couple of weeks. I am home alone and I hear my doorbell. To my surprise I find the male half alone; mind you this is not planned or anticipated. Surprised, I invite the male half inside. Quickly, while I am offering him water or tea, a few things are clear: he tells me he got into a fight with his wife and clearly he is high.
Within a couple of minutes, he starts recalling our reunion and begins to try to kiss me. For me, this situation moves from awkward to bad; he is grabbing at me like a drunken high school boy. I tell him twice he needs to leave now; he responds with ‘that is not what you said the other night’, ‘how about just a quickie’, ‘ you bitch quit playing games.’
Quickly, I started to become really scared; I had a guy in my house and I honestly had a nightmare that he was going to forcibly attack me! Fortunately, he allowed me to visit the bathroom ‘to pee’; I used my privacy to send out a very desperate text for help and the situation was resolved without need for the police.
- Did I happen on the one in a million freak or have others had the uninvited guest nightmare?
- Do you use your house ever?
- Woman do you own pepper spray or anything similar? And no I don't own (nor want) a gun...
- With hindsight clearly I should not have opened my front door; what else should I have done?
Sorry this has me freaked out….