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   clean slate....what would you do?  

4/22/2012 18:04
Posted By:  - CORONA, CA  
Date Posted: 4/22/2012 18:04
   So, I've been reading the forums for about 3 weeks now and some very "active" lifestylers (and a physician in the lifestyle) have suggested that if you are at all paranoid about STD's - GET OUT OF THE LIFESTYLE.  I admit, I am an std phobe and this alone has prevented me from indulging my fantasies for years on end. I am not completely inexperienced but I have not engaged for years for this reason.

If you could take everything you have learned in this lifestyle and advise/mentor a new single, what would you tell them concerning STD's/STI's and safe play? 

Let's say this person does not consider the exit door an option that will satisfy them but as of today they have a CLEAN SLATE and want to do everything possible to keep it that way.

Aside from HIV, what could I expect if I did contract an STI?   Would I feel sick, be in pain? Which STD's require a lifetime of medication?  How risky is unsafe oral sex?  Does anybody use condoms and dental gams? I won't - yuck!

Where is the best place to be tested and how should I approach this conversation with the doctor or gynecologist? 

If you were honest with yourself and a lifestyle "friend" what are your true feelings about this?  Do you contemplate this yourself?  How do you reconcile this conflict in order to FREE yourself up for the maximum pleasure this lifestyle has to offer.

I know this will render a lot of varied opinions.  I'm ready.  THANKS!


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