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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
Does the lifestyle break up couples?
How do I reel him back in or can I?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
Any thoughts? Any resources, swinger sites, clubs, well-known
What can a SM do in the crazy world of LA swing?
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Question: How do I begin?

Dear Lounge Advice,

My husband wants me to have a different experiance with my desires, and wants me to be with others. I want him to be happy and trust him totally. he says that he is sure that i will enjoy it.
I am nervious and same time want it too. how do i start and how to
know that its safe?



Dear (Anonymous),

You be sure that YOU control the pace of things if you want to explore. If it doesnít make you comfortable, then donít you may want to start by just going to a swing club just to watch and acclimate to the vibe.
Just remember, itís ok to say NO along the way. Please remember to communicate like crazy along the way. When couples donít do this, the lifestyle can wreak havoc.
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