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   Performance issues  

2/26/2011 05:24
Posted By:  - LACEY, WA  
Date Posted: 2/26/2011 05:24
   Ok, ok, ok, I'm sure there are hundreds of threads on this sight dedicated in some shape or form to this subject, but I'm really concerned about how it's effecting me at the moment.

I'm turning 31 next month. I eat right most of the time, I usually work out like a beast. The problem is I'm having performance issues at some of the most inopportune moments. Here's a closer look at it.

- I watch a LOT of porn. I get it in daily. No issues getting it up there.

- When I'm having sex with my wife. Normally no issues, but I am disturbed that on the few occasions that I'm not performing as well as normal when I'm with her I often think of scenes I've seen from pornos whenever I feel myself waning a bit (In fact, I do that whenever I'm not feel totally up to par in bed).

- When we play with familiar couples. Normally no issues.

There were a couple key events where I was truly failing to function correctly:

- The first was went we were playing with another couple while 2 vanilla girls were watching for there own kinky curiosity. The whole time they were there, they ere just gabby gabby gabbing away with a woman I was having sex with and gave me some kind of mental block. It was a good thing I was with someone familiar, because the girls couldn't stay too long and once they left, I was functioning normally.

- Now, me and the Mrs. recently went to a swinger club her in Germany. After mingling for a bit, we decided to fly solo and check on each other ever so often throughout the night. I found an attractive woman there that was MOST willing, but for some reason I just could get it up like normal.

Like I said before. I eat right and I do exercise normally. Does anyone think it's possibly a mental issue or that I just watch too much porn?

Do you think laying off the porn for a while will reverse the effect?

ANy advice anyone?

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