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ALEXANDRIA, MN |
3/18/2013 13:21 |
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- ALEXANDRIA, MN |
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Posted: 3/18/2013 13:21 |
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Great replies all. Richard's pessimism wasn't nearly as bad as I imagined (kidding - thank you Richard), and the other replies reinforced my feelings that we're being quite clear about expectations. As it worked out, the couple asked if just I could be there the first time as their Mrs felt intimidated by mine (women and their bodies!).
Thanks to 2Play's GREAT advice, I consciously made sure that all stayed involved. In fact I had to nudge her to spend time with her guy more than once. He later communicated how much he appreciated that and it helped him understand this is all just adult fun. We did take our time and all left wanting more. In fact they were ready to go again the next night with or without my wife...
My Mrs did well too - she was a little nervous waiting at home (though able to sleep). I've been in her shoes before as she's been with a SM when I wasn't there, so we could relate and talk about things. It opened up her eyes to how I was feeling when she was out having her fun. A win-win-win night for all.
As a relative newbie and this being my first time as a SM it's great to have people on the forums you can talk to.
-Geek.
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