Dear Lounge Advice, Being new to "The lifestyle" I have found there is a new vocabulary I need to learn. I have seen the word Vanilla being used a couple times, also someone asked "vanilla or wanton?". I have no idea what that means. Is there somewhere we can learn all these meanings? Thanks, Wish you were here Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), Yes, the myriad acronyms and terms can be a bit overwhelming when you're new to the lifestle. Make your way over to the homepage here and click on the 'Frequently Asked Questions'. In there, you'll see a link for terms used in the lifestyle. If you don't see one you need, come back here and I should be able to help you out.