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Question: Deception

Dear Lounge Advice,

I am dating a gentleman and we became interested and wanted to experience what the "lifestyle" has to offer us, so we became a "couple" on here. The only real rules we have are to be honest with each other. Well I recently found out that he met with a single woman who is not in the lifestyle and began a "relationship" with her. I'm not really sure how to handle the situation. I have not talked to him about it yet.



Dear (Anonymous),

This should be a no-brainer.

Confront and leave.

If he can't follow one simple rule, especially with you being open to the lifestyle, he can probably never be trusted.

If you feel that you can deal with the mistrust, they stay with him and prepare for more heartbreak.

If you have self-pride, you know you deserve better than this.

Don't give up anymore of your precious time endring this.

Do you really think that additional anguish will pay off in the long run with this man?

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